Need some advice from the ladies. Guys 2 if u want.?

Question

Me and my gf were in a long distance relationship for about 6months. Everything was going gr8. I work alot & we couldn't see each other much. We used 2 IM to get rid of the distance factor but her stupid mother took it away frm her when she tries to talk 2 me. Well recently she admitted that she cheated on me & she got pregnant by her best friend. She said that she was sorry but she still wants the baby & wants us 2 b 2gether. Should I work it out with her or should I kick her 2 the curb & say its over

Answer 1

Well, you are long-distance and she is pregnant with another man's baby, which she plans to keep.  For those reasons I would wish her luck and move on and find someone else who hasn't cheated on you.  Think about it, do you want to be "daddy" to another man's child?  What happens if the biological father wants to get involved in the child's life?  Also, if she cheated on you once could you really trust her not to do it again, even if she says she won't?  

Answer 2

It's over. Character and trust are huge in a relationship and she has about 117 strikes to the negative. She struck out so many times she needs a pitch hitter now. Put another worm on the hook. Happy fishing.

Answer 3

i dont say this often, but are you a fool ? not just kick her to the curb , but a nice hard drop kick !

Answer 4

Leave her. Do you really want to raise some other guy's kid? If she really wanted to be with you, she wouldn't have cheated on you. Good girls don't cheat.

Answer 5

depends if you love her... sounds like a bad situation... id kick her to the curb my gf would never cheat on me so im not sure

Answer 6

if u love her stay, but i would leave her do u realy wana rais someonther guys baby? it was wrong that she did that but ur choice

Answer 7

I think you should kick her to the curb, it may be hard because you dont deserve what she did. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Who knows what she may do in the future. Maybe she just wants someone to help her support the baby, so she wont be on he own. She shouldnt be using you like that, because you deserve better. Good Luck ! :)

Answer 8

man if my gf was cheating on me it would be over but if she was cheating and got pregnant by it i would never talk to her again

Answer 9

You should base your decision on how you really feel about her, and if you are serious about her, the future responsibility of a child. Not what completely strangers would do.

Answer 10

You know what they say once a cheater always a cheater. I mean you can try to work things out with her but the trust factor is not going to be there anymore. You can be with her and things can go great but your always going to have that little doubt in the back of your head asking you if she is cheating again or not..

Answer 11

Well, if you still love her then yes try to make things work with her. If she promises never to do it again and you still love her and she loves you, then nothing is getting in the way, is there?

If you don't love her then don't just dump her, tell her that you can't do it and you don't know if you can trust her anymore, tell her the truth calmly and maturely maybe you can be friends try and try to work it out either way.

Char x  

Answer 12

Kick her to the curb and say it's over. First off, if her mother took away her IM, I am assuming you guys are like, 14, so getting pregnant at that age and being in a "long distance relationship" really isn't going anywhere.

Answer 13

i think that you need to talk it too with your best friend to see how is her relationship with him. then talk to your girlfriend and tell her what do you think, it also depens of your perspective about cheating and if you are ready to be a father

wish you luck with you desicion

bye

Answer 14

In my honest opinion you should break up with her