Need some advice with life??

Question

Hey everyone im 13 and need some advice. Alright heres whats going on as everyone knows in middle school you have all the different groups. Im in this group where ive been friends with these kids for years and now theyre getting into stuff like drugs, fights, etc. I am a smart kid and am staying away from drugs. But the school year is starting up and i have no f**cking idea how its gonna be. I wanna lead a good life not be a junkie on the corner beggin for money so i can shoot the needle. But ive been thinking about this alot lately. Any advice from people that have been through this or have good advice of how to get out of this or what?? I am not depressed just to let you know

Answer 1

hey there, its good that your not getting into that mess.

start talking to people that you think can make good friends

for example: the school type involved people, or perhaps those kids that do not look like trouble.

Those are considered good friends

stay away from all that mess, go on to another "group"

its better to leave, instead of getting involved to worst things

who cares what they think,

you can still talk to them, just pull the friendship towards levels down

and sit at a different table =]

good luck.

Answer 2

I would reccomend not doing drugs. You might end up getting left out and not being accepted by these kids but none of it will matter in a few years. Obviously being accepted is one of the most important things to most people when they are young but its a risk if drugs are involved. I have friends who did drugs when they were young some of them are fine some of them are dead.

Answer 3

good for you for not choosing drugs! don't worry, most people aren't bad, you just gotta look in the right places. join clubs that reflect values you want to have and always be looking for nice, honest people.

you are so smart, i'm sure you will find great friends!!!