Need some big time help with this dream.?

Question

Alright so my two friends got married 2 years ago and for some reason I just had a dream that I tried to win the girl from the guy. I don't know why I dreamt about doing that because I would never want to do that. Here is the basic part of the dream.

I was at an outdoor get together and I was just laying there when she came over and we started talking. Well it started to get cold and she had on a hooded sweatshirt and I was just in a t-shirt. She asked if I was cold and when I said yes, she laid on top of me to keep me warm.

So then I could see her husband and it didn't seem to bother him (probably because he can trust me in real life). Unfortunately one time when he wasn't looking I snuck a kiss and she didn't mind. After the party we kept texting back and forth. One night I asked her to come over and at first she didn't want to but then she finally did. He found out got really mad and tried to kill me but I woke up before anything happened.

Anyone know what this dream could mean? I know most guys say this but I truly wouldn't ever tried to come between my friends because they are a great couple. Thanks

Answer 1

You want his wife but you also need her to make all the moves so your friend won't blame you when he finds out.It;s how friendships cease and affairs begin especially when your friend is so trusting he would probably trust you with his life and because of his wife trusting you also she would be easy to get in that situation and you obviously feel you could run with this scenario in all probability the friendship will end having run it's course.

Answer 2

Your dream suggests that while you might not ever cut in between your friends, you are not immune from desiring what it is that they share.

The attraction in your dream is not necessarily for the other fellow's wife, although there may be an attraction that you wisely keep at bay - we are all human and subject to such things,  What you may have registered deep in your inner mind is the happiness they have and how you would like to know that for yourself.  That too is normal and is not an envious thing, given how you've expressed yourself here.

Who better then to portray the mistress of your hope?  Obviously you admire this couple and no doubt she is an attractive lady.  It is the warmth and closeness between them that seems to beckon to you more than anything else and she lends a very satisfying face to the theme.  

In that her husband finally did turn on you is truly a mirror image of you yourself.  This thing would be wrong and you know it, he seeks to 'kill' just as you know that such an occurrence would lead only to hurt for all.

Don't worry - there is nothing to be ashamed of or to fear in this - it is quite human and normal.  The theme of an outdoor get together lends an obvious social setting for such thing to initiate and relationships often grow from such contacts.  Perhaps you should attend more to your own social possibilities and let reward find you.  Keep your gentlemanly standards - you have them or you would not have written in the way that you did, out of concern about your friends' role in this.

If you are in the northern hemisphere, cool fall weather approaches - make the most of that.  Who knows whom you may meet who offers warmth against the chill?  One will come for you in your own time that provides what you want - that which drives this dream.

I hope this will help in your understanding.

All the best to you for happiness, good friends and companionship.

Answer 3

I don't know what your dream means, but I don't know if it really means anything.  I've had some crazy dreams that freaked me out, and then I realized it was stupid and meant nothing.

Maybe you thought about your friends, and you saw something on TV about someone trying to steal someone's girl.  It could be anything like that, but just remember to not let that dream influence your life.  You wouldn't want to jeopardize your friendship, so don't let it.