Need some comfort? am i the only one???

Question

ok i have been trying to conceive but just tested and got a neg.

i am healthy and have been tryin since may...on and off really...i just need to know that there are other healthy women out there that have been trying and it just not happening

or if there is any1 that tryed alot and finally got pregnant thanx

Answer 1

It took me about 6 months to conceive with my first; the doctor told me not to start to worry for at least 1 year.  I have a friend who was told it was highly unlikely for her to ever have a child.  They adopted and 2 years later found out they were expecting.  I think the main thing you can do is relax and give it a little time.

Answer 2

dont think about it and the more times u have unprotected s*x the better ur chances

Answer 3

im trying to get preg, but it just doesnt seem to happen. i wish it went as easily as my first. although my first was unplanned.

with my son i got preg the first time i had s*x without a condom (pull out method does not work to all you teenagers out there). now that i am actually TTC it doesn't seem to want to happen.

it seems when you're not trying it happens easy. when you are trying it takes forever.

Answer 4

in 1998 i got preggy and at close to 3 months list the baby . i tried for several years afterwards. it was one month shy of 6 years later i got preggy with me daughter. ^ years of winging it hopeing to have a baby and then boom out of no where when i was not expecting it it happened. then she was 2 i decided to get a copper T IUD well 10 months later i was preggy again. i am now 27 weeks along with a baby boy.  so for me it is weirs 6 yrs winging it and then 2 years after winging it and then 10 months on the IUD. i know the more you think about it  from what i feel the less likley it will happen. dont stress over it have fun. when i got preggy with my daughter haveing a baby was the last thing on my mind. ( though funny thing we went to babys r us that day and joked around) and with this baby here we had alot of fun not thinkig about a baby. but he is a 4 in 10000 odds baby. with wacy pregnancy i had a baby was the last thing on my mind. best of luck to you dear.  

Answer 5

with my daughter i tried for 15 months. then it took me 5 years and 2 miscarriages to get my youngest. there is hope don't give up.  

Answer 6

It always seems to take longer when you're trying. A friend of mine was trying for 3 years, had all the fertility tests done and was told everything was fine. finally after 3 years they got pregnant and have a beautiful baby now.

Try not to worry about it too much, although I know it can be tough. Relax and enjoy all the trying, at this point you have nothing to worry about yet! :)