Need some help Is this OK?

Question

Is it ok to have friends of the opposite s*x if ur married my friend doesnt want me to have NO GUY friends but it ok for him to have females friends all i met them and im friends with his female friends now but the guy friends that i had when we got 2gether he curse them out and said stay away from my wife shes married now yea and i had those guy friends for years like him and his girlfriends i dnt get it i wantd him to met them and be cool with but he just so crazy want should i do

Answer 1

Tell him it's a two way street or he can hit the highway.  You insist that you and he will play by the SAME RULES.

Answer 2

No, his behavior is not okay.  Especially since he knows your friends and has been around them.  It's not like you've tried to hide anything.  The wise part of me says that the two of you should get into marriage counseling to see if you can resolve your issues.  Having an objective third person to bounce things off of can be a big help.  The immature part of me says to give him a dose of his own.  The next time one or more of his female friends are around, tell them they need to leave.  Explain that he is married now, he is your husband and they need to stay away.

Answer 3

As a husband it sounds like he does not trust you, that's why he does not want you to have any guy friends, my wife had guy friends and i trusted her.  and we have been married for 17 yrs now. He needs to grow up a bit and trust you, if he really loves you, he will trust you/

Answer 4

  A double standard is NOT okay.  I can almost see being uncomfortable with an SO having close friends of the opposite gender at work.  There's the whole appearances thing.  You don't want to have to wonder and everything.  But you can't apply that to one SO and not the other.  That's self-centered and demonstrates his inability to think logically and fairly.  

Answer 5

no u should be equal.

Answer 6

That is controlling behavior.  It is NOT ok.  

Answer 7

that is so not ok! girl...if he's not ok with your friends..you shouldn't be with him. if he really loves you...he'd want you to be happy..and your friends make you happy.