Need some help concerning my sister?

Question

Its about my younger sister, she feels that she doesn't fit into our family and I had to find this out from one of our friends. How can I be the older sister she need and give her advice that would make her feel better? Or does she rather to talk to friends insted of me about her problems, how can I help her to feel loved before she decides to do something really wrong to herself.....

Answer 1

You've got to let her know how much you care about her.  Take her out somewhere to talk, preferably her favorite restaurant.  Look her in the eye and tell her that you think she is a super person and that you are so thankful that she is your sister.  Tell her you love her and some of the things you admire about her.  Let her know that any time she needs to talk you are ready to listen.

On a daily basis do small special things for her, like buying her small gifts, make her bed for her, pick some flowers and leave in her room., stick a note in her back pack, take her to the mall, or a sporting event.....

Keep in close touch even if she doesn't seem interested in talking to you.   Ask her questions about her day that can't be answered with a yes or no, she will have to talk to you.  

You could also tell your parents how she feels so that they too can be more sensitive of her feelings.   All of you need to know the signs of depression and and suicidal thoughts.  If you think your sister is in need of it, suggest counseling by a professional.