Need some help figuring out what i am... only serious answers please. ?

Question

I am 15 years old. i have a boyfriend right now. and have had many throughout the years. but i have had a crush on this one girl for over a year. i just started seeing her again and now i like rly rly like her. i dont know if this means im bi or L*****n. or if its just a stage. should i try it out and see? i dont want no one to know though. because theyll think diff. of me. and i DEFF dont want my boyfriend finding out. but like.. she kissed me once. i liked it. am i bi? im okay if i am. i dont mind. but i am tired of questioning it. i want a real answer. please help. i really do like her...

Answer 1

I hate to say it, but I agree with the othe guy. What is it with teenagers and sleeping around? If you are so confused about your sexuality why dont you dump your boyfriend and remain single for awhile. When I was in high school we did this thing called dating. Where we were not exclusive with anyone and we didnt jump into a sexual relationship with every person who showed some interest. The fact that your willing to cheat on your boyfriend without batting an eye says that you really dont know what you want. When I made the transition from straight to g*y (at the age of 26) I took some time to reflect on whether or not it was really what I wanted. I dated several girls, without sleeping with them, just to get a feel for having a relationship with a woman.

You can not have a positive relationship with a man or a woman until you are sure who you are. No offense, but your still developing your own ideals and morals. Slow down!!! These will be some of the most important years of your life.

Answer 2

Okay, first thing's first.

"I am 15 years old. i have a boyfriend right now. and have had many throughout the years."

Honestly, that just makes you sound like an easy, sleazy hooker. Throughout what years? You're 15.

And second, yes, you're probably a L*****n. Now, why don't you wait until you're like... oh, I don't know, done with school before you pursue your new found sexual life?

Answer 3

How do you feel about your boyfriend?

What is this girl like? Is she feminine or masculine?

If she is feminine, then you most likely are in some ways a L*****n.

If she is masculine, this could be a one time thing.

And does everything feel better with the girl?

As opposed to ANYONE you've been with?

I'm sorry I can't give you an answer...

Answer 4

i think that more than likely you need to figure out this on your own

i am bi but i mean i have been all my life

and just because you kissed a girl doesnt mean that you are bi or a L*****n

honestly give it a few years

and i wouldnt do the whole crushing on a girl while dating a guy

it just happened to me and honestly i wouldnt wish that pain on anyone

me and my boyfriend are still dating though

but my answer to you is just give it more time.

like 2 or 3 more years you never know you might grow out of it.