Need some honest opinions..?

Question

Hi, I'm an 18 yr old girl who's never had a boyfriend. I've had a couple of guys ask me out, but i've never liked them, and i've liked a couple of guys who've never liked me. I know this sounds really, really shallow, but I'm always attracted to the good-looking guys.. who are never attracted back. I feel really horrible and superficial but I can't seem to do anything about it. I'm no stunner myself, i'd say i'm average, so if everyone feels the same way as me, does it mean i'll never get a boyfriend?! Here's a couple of my photos so you can judge for yourself;

I'm 2nd from the right in the teal coloured dress:

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=111353157&albumID=897923&imageID=6268293

and this one:

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=111353157&albumID=897923&imageID=6265405

I put that one there so you could see me when i'm not quite so well groomed. Both photos are 1-2 years old, but I haven't changed much.

Anyway, what would be a good way to attract guys? I'm chatty, friendly, nice and I try to dress reasonably nicely. I think if I could do something to catch their attention, maybe they'd be won over when they got to know me? Maybe even some tips on looking good? I'd love to have my hair down all the time, but its' extremely frizzy so I only have it down when I wack a heap of gel in it after showering or I go the hhairdresses (see first pic)

Please don't make any nasty comments, I would just like some honest advice.

Answer 1

Some guys like frizzy hair.

There is nothing wrong with wanting someone you find attractive EVERYONE wants someone they think is attractive.

It isn't shallow.Shallow is when you only date a person for their looks and nothing else matters and you ignore what the person is or is not.

You want someone who looks good with good character.You are only 18 and you need to be PATIENT.

Get into church and ask the LORD for a husband,HE will send you one in time.I had to wait 15 yrs. for my wife the LORD sent me, but she was worth the wait hon.

By the way,I couldn't see your picture it said"picture has either been deleted or set to private".

Answer 2

Hey, I would give you some honest advice but I don't have a myspace account which you need to view those photos.

I would suggest posting them to something like photobucket if you want the majority of people to be able to see them.

Sorry about that.

Answer 3

hi, your pictures aren't showing up.  i don't think your a 'bad person' for being attracted only to the attractive lol.  that will go away with age honestly.  i am 18 also but i have had my fair share of experiences.  i have been forced to grow up fast because i have made mistakes and i have a son.  it's weird but now i find myself attracted to personalities rather than looks.  its a great feeling to know i've finally overcome it. because i have always wished i could do just that but i have always wanted the 'good looking guy' before.  as you mature and grow older it will come.  as for now... just be patient (easier said than done i know)  and maybe you'll get your nice looking guy.  just make sure they have a good personality to go along with it.

best of luck

Kala

Answer 4

I also can't see the pictures, but maybe some advice will help. It's not your fault on the guys you're attracted to. Just because you've never had a boyfriend doesn't mean nothing will come. Just keep persisting and get to know guys well before you make a move or anything like that. Try just being yourself.

Answer 5

I can't see your pictures because you have a private profile. Sorry :(