THERE ANSWER:
First, if he says he doesn't want to become emotionally attached, and he just wants fwb, then that is exactly what he wants. If he felt that he would get emotionally attached when he didn't really want to then he would have stopped messing around with you altogether
MY QUESTION
So this good friend of mine who i go to school, college with, she hooked me and this guy up, We really click well and everytime we are together we can't keep our hands off each other, he's met my parents and i have done the same with him, we share alot of the same beliefs and morals and were raised pretty much the same style, however, he told his friend who hooked us up wich is 8-10 years older than us that he wanted a girlfriend or more so for her to find him some one so she gave him me! Everything has been going good, we get along very well and he likes me and i like his aswell. However, he is 19 and i am 18. he doesn't want a relationship tying him down, or for me to get mad if i want to hang out and he wants to go hang with his buddies, which i really wouldn't i just want communication. anyways we have made out and messed around a little, and he told me last night when we were talking that pretty much he is still fielding his options, i am ready for a relationship but he wants to be friends with benefits which is great, i just don't want to get emotionally attatched because he is not ready for that yet, but i do believe that if he and i hang out that he will for sure fall more for me and that building that best friend/friend realtionship would soon develop into a love for each other?
what do you think
just please help me anyway you can i am so totally confused right now!!
thanks!
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