Need some serious advice?

Question

I need some advice on what to do..A month ago me and my boyfriend messed around and didn't use protection which was the dumbest thing. A few days after that i started spot bleeding a week after that i had a clear discharge..but the last time i came on my period was june 20th which is wierd..I end up having intercourse again on august 2nd but not with my then-boyfriend and that was un-protected... i finally came on my period last week..i got off now out of no where im spot bleeding yet again!! im not on birth control, or the pill so please can anyone give me the best advice..i kno i need to go 2 the doctor but i just need to kno what im dealing with b4 i go?!

Answer 1

preg test girl!!!

Answer 2

I think the doctor will help you with many question, but you also must ask yourself if you want to get pregnant or not, and if you don't want make babies then you should protect yourself, with whatever that it is good for you. Don't listen to people  who try to play Mother Teresa here.

I hope you will soon feel better about everything and good luck  

Answer 3

Go to the doctor now, they can tell you what you're dealing with, you don't need to know, because they'll tell you, you silly fool.

Answer 4

I'd suggest you take a pregnancyy test (can order online if you don't want to shop though has a delivery time) and head to a sexual health clinic (i'm from the UK so no idea how it works in USA) where you can get a few STI tests with no judgmental doctors!

Ive never been tested myself but i went to get my implant removed and they were all lovely. Much better than going to doctors i thought.

Then i'd suggest you find a contraception that suits you. I hated the pill as i always forgot it and then couldn't have s*x! grrrr

I suggest always carrying a condom around anyway but maybe a long term solution that means you don't have to worry about it would suit you? Like the implant (tho watch for weight gain!), injections or the patch. Remember, condoms are not very effective compared to methods like these, the implant being one of the best...when i had that put in i asked what i should look out for if i had become preg and the doctor said don;t bother, you won't lol

Good Luck with the tests, remember contraception is better than an STI and an accidental pregnancy everytime! :D

Answer 5

You need to go to the doctor and be checked out.  Tell them exactly what you said here and be sure to include that you've been having unprotected s*x.  You may have an STD.   Please stop having unprotected s*x.  You are worth more than that.  Wait for the right person that is willing to be in a committed marriage with you.