Need to get rid of unwanted attention... Please Help

Question

I'm I'm 14 and friends with this guy who's 15. We've been friends since we were little but now were older hes got a crush on me (hes never said it but me and others have noticed). I don't wanna blab on to much so ill put it in point.

1. He dates my friends to try and make me jealous, then dumps them a week later

2. Follows me where ever we i go at school,

3. Basically abandoned his guy friends to hang round me a my girlfriends

4. He goes on and on and on when he thinks i like someone (I liked one of his mates and another guy who was 16) I hoped he'd back off a bit after finding out i liked his mate and especially when he found out i liked an older guy. He tried bagging his mate to me.

5. He's always txting me. I regret letting him have my number.

6. He keeps telling me about other guys d**ks and stuff even though i tell him not to and that i dont wanna know

7.He gloats whenever anyone asks if he goes out with me (People ask cause hes always walking around with me.)

How can i get him to back off. Ive tried hintignoringe people, ignoreing him, told him to go oI'm with "Jane" and im starting to run outta ideas. I cant tell him straight up cause im too shy to he has a big mouth and will do his best then to make me look stupid by telling everyone what i said to him so that wouldnt work. My mum know about how most of it, not everything, and shes think hes a bit of a worry.

Please help Thanks

Answer 1

Tell him straight up Look you are a ok friend but to be honest i ain't feeling you like no boyfriend. Tell that he is starting to get on your nerves with the bullshit and that you in the end will have to cut him off all together if he does not quit.

You can also add in  something like i am not trying to get serious with you or anyone else I am only 14

Also add in that your Mum is not liking all the time spent with him blame it on Mom We Mom's do not mind Honest :0)

Oh and if he tries to bass on you in public than bust him back by waiting till in a crowd and saying  why you trying to slam me just because i told you to step off. Read him out in front his buddies He will leave ya alone\ if ya show him you ain;ain'taking his c**p.

Answer 2

well what i think you should do is try to talk to him even if your scared. say "look i know that you like me but i dont like you, i really hate that you bother me and you talk to me about peoples private parts and stuff but please quit following me around, obviously im not interested in you so please get something better to do!!" something like that. you should really just yell so he'll back off. If your scared to talk to him in person (this may sound wimpy) just send him a big long text next time he's bothering you. Next time you see him tell him I'M on your side and I say QUIT BOTHERING THIS GIRL AND GET A LIFE!! SHES NOT INTERESTED FU!! there i really, honestly, truly, sincerely hope i helped cuz that kid needs to be kicked in the ***!!

Answer 3

Your friend is like mine. Just cuss him out. Repeatly till he gets it. =]

Answer 4

Who cares how stupid you're gonna look if he goes telling everyone?? This is stalker behavior and needs to be dealt with. It's completely inappropriate to be discussing anatomy with a 14 year old girl and he needs to stop. Tell him. Get over it and tell him. If you've been friends for so long you should be able to tell him darn near anything and he needs to respect that. If he doesn't he wasn't a friend in the first place.