Needed woman's opinion. mixed messages?

Question

I'm curious if it's general practise for women to send mixed signals to guys.

Some of the girls I know will be all flirty one minute but then won't even return a basic email/sms asking "how are things".

I can understand if it's a one off but to make a constant thing seems kinda cold.

I get confused what to think. Am I a friend? Am I more? Am I nothing?

Need thoughts because it makes things weird when I'm around them. How am I meant to act when I don't even know where we stand?!

Answer 1

sometimes...but not most of the time

the best way is to be straight forward...ask her..

Answer 2

Most Women Send Mixed Messages . There Scared Of Moving Too Fast :)

Just Carry On They WIll Be Back To Normal Soon :)

They May Have Mixed Feelings About You And They Dont Understand :)

Hope i Helped

Leah x

Answer 3

Personally, if i send mixed signals it's because i like the guy and wanna confuse him a bit. Not for fun, more like playing hard to get. BUT I always make sure to show enough interest. So check if these girls are more hot or cold. I recommend you don't go along with their "game" and check if they make an effort to not let you go. Gotta make them express how they really feel with this "game" of your own. ;) Girls scheme too, but much more subtly! Hope this helped. Good luck!

Answer 4

i know ! you are soo right ! i bet many guys have to face this problem. Being a girl i think your right because soemtimes girls flirt like crazy and the second minute their so over you !

actually what i think is that the girl thinks that the guy isnt into her and so shes like forget him lets target someone else so try being a little flirty and try to act s**y!

Answer 5

your definently not any thing more. your probaly in between a friend and nothing. so if you like them try making jokes and get them to feel more comfortable around you mabye you could end up being more.

Answer 6

Ask them.  "what do you consider me?"

Answer 7

Maybe they haven't read your e mails. When you are around them again. Say something like " I sent you and e mail "and see what response you get. If they say something like "oh, yeah , I was so busy that I didn't have time to response." forget about them because if they were really interested they would have responded.