Needing advice to help make a difficult decision?

Question

I know this isn't the right category but I trust you guys the most so well here it goes...and p.s I'm not looking for any negetive feedback thanks.

Well, first off I'm 18,my bf's 19 and our son is 4mnths.Yesterday I was browsing online and then left to take a shower,when I got out my bf mentioned my brother's daughter had unplugged the computer.which she does a lot.me n my bro share it.Well I plugged it back and got online.there were searches for teen p**n.neither one is admitting it so I havent been talking to my bf.my bro keeps sayinh he didnt see him on it but my bf was in the room when I left.& my bro keeps saying it wasnt my bf but hes not admitting it either.I know it's a dumb reason to break up but it's more of the fact that he might be lying that hurts me.any advice would be great.thanks

Answer 1

Getting caught with p**n can be very embarassing. No matter who had been searching for p**n, I think you should forget about it. Most guys in such a situation would lie. It's not a good reason to brake up with someone, yes it's a lie but a very small lie and it's a lie that even you would probably say in the same situation

Answer 2

I would not break up over this. Too much more important things going on with the new baby and stuff. I understand that it hurts you are being lied to and I am not trying to be mean but maybe you are looking into this too much unless you are completely against it and your brother and boyfriend both know this.  But if it was your bf he is probably like oh $&@# I got caught. If it was your brother he may just be completely Embarassed that you found it. Or maybe they are both embarassed. Give it a couple days and see what happens before you make and dramatic decisions.

Answer 3

my husband and i have this arguement all the time and you need to know that getting caught with p**n is very embaressing for the one who is caught and he will never tell you the truth boys and men don't want us to know what they were looking at because we have a negative opinion about what it was DON'T break up over this but let him know that its the lie that hurts and not the action of what he's done maybe if you seem open to the truth he will tell it to you.

Answer 4

Well do you really want to break up over something you are not sure of?

What you could do is make different profiles on the computer so that each person would have to log into their own, and then you would know who was doing it.