Negative friend who claims she is Psychic?

Question

I have this friend who says she is Psychic, some of the things she says does happen and come true. However, she is always very negative saying "I don't need anybody" "I don't trust anyone," and everytime I mention something she always gives me a negative third degree.

Should I cut her loose, its to the point now where she is so paranoid that I have a feeling she is ignorning my calls and not wanting to hang out with me?

I just don't get her--she blames me for every negative or crazy thing that happens when she is around me! And her idea of crazy things for example-- are guys flirting with us saying stupid stuff.

Answer 1

In my experince psychics tend to dwell in two worlds.  The abstract energy world and the real world.  The worlds are totally differn't and many can not spend all there time in the phychic world.  If they get too envolved into the spiritual world  then it becomes there world.  Real life can take a second seat.  Granted, its probally a great world to be in but I think one tends to loose there sense of self when they see the spiritual world and all it's wonders.  People like that can become recluse and lonely.  There still humans and have the basic needs that we all do.  So perhaps they reach out for company but when social situations comes about and they don't know how to handle it and say the wrong thing or do the wrong thing.  Now this is if she is a real psychic.  Many claim that title to just mask serious personal problems and to show off.  If that is the case then there are a lot of great meds on the market to correct mental disorders.  But what gets me about this is why she blames you for bad things when you guys hang out.  I think there is more going on then whats being said.  She may be one of those people that want to blame everything on someone esle so she may have some serious issues in her head.

Answer 2

As witchy Mel says - not grounded.

Easy to get a buzz when you get connected - but some just don't like grounding. This usually results in a bit of loopyness.

Hopefully you can talk her down - or at least give her the info before cutting her loose.

I think she will still stay a friend when she gets over this and gains a bit of perspective - but not for a 2 years 3 months.... (Not sure why I said that)

Answer 3

Whether she is psychic or not would not be my concern for you.

Friendships are supposed to be mutually supportive and enriching. We are supposed to enjoy being with each other.

Sure we go through rough times and stick together but someone who appears to view a friendship as a one sided relationship isn't truly a friend worth having.

We are supposed to uplift each other not drag each other down with negativity and petty criticism.

It sounds as if your 'friend' lacks self-esteem and transfers it onto others in order to make herself feel better.

Until she is ready to address the issues in her life that are causing her sadness she will be unable to form a healthy and happy friendship with anyone.

It sounds as if the kindest thing to do would let her know how you are feeling and how she makes you feel. If she is a friend she will think about it and try and make amends.

If not, it sounds as if you have put enough energy into trying to sustain this friendship and should move on and find the sort of friend you really deserve.

Answer 4

she f uc king with your head, she may have Psychosis? a mental illness.

Answer 5

"some of the things she says does happen" is called guessing, not psychic power.  If she really could see the future, everything would come true.  What other abilities come and go like that?  If I claim I can do calculus, but only get the answer right sometimes, isn't it more likely that I'm just guessing?

And yes, she sounds a bit crazy.  If I were you, I wouldn't bother with her in the future; after all, she should have seen that coming, right?  ;)

Answer 6

I agree with Joe G. Being connected to the spirit world is a wonderful feeling. I too put my life on hold sometimes but only because i am so busy working with others and trying to help them. It sounds like she needs to cleanse herself and the space around her. From what you have said it sounds like she is just starting out and it can be scarey if you don't have anyone to share this with. You may want to surround yourself with white light everyday to protect yourself from any energy that is being drawn to her. Good Luck

Answer 7

give it some time.

Answer 8

Alot of psychics who arent very intuned tend to be kind of negative. Such gifts can really bring a human down. She probably needs to be solitaire and reflect on things being that she has such sensitive ability.

Answer 9

I think it's pretty obvious she doesn't want to be your friend.

Answer 10

You know, after reading your description, it really does not sound to me like she is really a friend. She seems self-obsessed and inconsiderate. From my vantage point I can't know why, maybe she has problems of her own, who knows. But I don't think she's ready to be a friend, whatever is going on. My advice is if she is not receptive to you trying to help her or develop a relationship with her, wish her the best but cut her loose and find other friends.  

Answer 11

Psychics can be negative and positive people same as us, (positive; open in sharing KNOWLEDGE and concentrated on well beings of other or they can be negative; concentrated on gaining the power, knowledge and energy from other entities and people.

My question to you is: Is she really Psychics (it is easily to see she is not your friend), since her aura is full of red, white, yellow dots, she is overflown with negative vibes and she will have problem with her health and her life pretty soon if she does not do something about it.

Now she learned how to engage other people energy but she do not know what to do with it, you see if she is psychic she would not be uncertain, changing opinions, moody, and she would be surrounded with people all the time, because people with great energies (aura) no matter positive or negative are magnet to other people. Second I am sure she had option to learn great things and she could sense some its and bits that other people could not but in some period of time she decide not to proceed with knowledge and got blocked, usually that is like brain bomb and than is better to run away from this kind of vibes.

Third you did great thing by instinct you decided to limit contact to her, only possibility to protect us from negative people no matter if they are physics or not is to limit contact to them or not to contact them at all.

Last but not the least psy. love to meet other psy. why we are learning from each other, sharing knowledge, or just trying to see our limits, and by yourself you can not see that until you meet other psy.

Answer 12

It sounds like Divine madness. A person can get so wrapped up in spiritual things, that they can go a bit crazy. If you are psychic and you get too wrapped up in it, you can become very paranoid.

It also sounds like she isn't doing any grounding and shielding....spiritual hygiene work that would help to keep her aura clean from psychic debris...that can make a psychic very negative.

Also, not all psychics are good people.

On the flip side, last New Year's Eve, I really didn't want to go out with a particular friend because I knew if I did, something bad was going to happen. I went against that feeling, even though I accidentally stepped on a hand mirror and shattered it while I was putting on my make up. When I looked down, I saw my face all shattered in the pieces. I was really nervous then!

But I still went out. Guess what happened? My friend stepped on the back of my very long dress at the end of the night and I fell flat on my face and hit the sidewalk. My eyebrow was protruded and I had a concussion and my eye was swollen shut for days. The next day was my birthday.

I only share that with you because you mentioned New Years and I was immediately reminded of it.

Maybe your friend would be more easy to get a long with...and happier, if she started shielding and grounding. Tell her a psychic said that. :) I would be more than happy to send you some sites for her, let me know.