I already have a 4-year-old son. My second son is due in about three weeks. What I am concerned about: being able to find time to rest. Let me explain my situation and you'll understand...
My husband only has 8 days of paid vacation left and plans to use them in order to help me out once our son is born. However, after the time is all used up...he plans to go back to work because we are living on only his salary. When this happens, he won't be able to get up at night to help with the baby (he gets up at 5:30 AM to be at work at 7:00 AM-3:00 PM).
I know a lot of magazines and books say to get help from family and friends...but both of my parents are disabled and cannot help out because their health. My mother-in-law can't help because she has health issues too and her dog doesn't like children. All of my other relatives have day jobs or live in a city 4 hours away. If I'm up several times at night with the baby and up all day with my 4-year-old, when do I get to rest??
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