Never achieved climax through any type of s*x girls only please?

Question

how did you get your first one? need help. my boyfriend thinks its him and he's getting really frustrated which frustrates me. its really hard i've had 3 long term relationships and not any of them i could climax with.

Answer 1

get your self a rampant rabbit my girl ex did

Answer 2

Learn how you o****m best by masturbating, and then tell him (or *show* him) how.  A great many women *never* o****m through penetration alone.

Masturbation is having s*x with the only person you'll ever meet who knows *exactly* what you feel and what you like, even if that changes every second.

One thing you can do to find out is check out this webpage:

http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation_ho...

Read the page all the way through, and try some of the things suggested (including the "extras" linked at the bottom). Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and just enjoy learning what feels best for you... it's fun. Sooner or later, you'll have an o****m, and they get better each time if you're one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again.

It can take anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to reach o****m... both of these are unusual but normal, and anything in between is just fine.

Just before o****m, you might have a feeling a bit like you have to pee, but it's not quite the same, and when your o****m first happens, there'll be a very strong (sometimes intense and *powerful*), warm and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your v****a and then through your whole lower body. Then very quickly your clitoris, your v****a, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that feeling spreads all over you.

During all this, your toes will probably curl, you might feel like you need to hold your breath or like you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to tense up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noises (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can't really control. You might "squirt" or "ejaculate" a lot of fluid from your urethra (don't worry, it's not pee). The whole time, it's just about the best feeling there is.

(Everything you "might" feel or do above isn't always going to happen... some orgasms are much less overwhelming than just *very* pleasureable.)

As that feeling becomes more gentle and starts to go away (after maybe 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will begin to relax, and you might feel sort of like having a nap... or like just lying there and letting your mind drift... or maybe even like doing it again.... or even like doing it again.

It's not something that happens often, but it *might* happen that there'll be no interruption at all between orgasms, and it can feel like one single o****m that lasts anywhere from 30 or 40 seconds to several minutes.

Have fun and don't worry. Masturbating is normal and healthy, and learning what pleases you sexually is good for you... especially because you'll know what to tell your man about how to please you when you have s*x.

Answer 3

You'll have to accept that you'll probably never climax through intercourse.  Most women don't, and no man can crack that code.  You'll need direct stimulation like oral s*x or masturbation to get there.  Assure him it's only the way your body works and it's not unusual or it's his fault.  You can also work stimulation into s*x, like fingering during the act or using some vibrator on your clitoris while he goes to work.

Answer 4

i had a similar situation with my boyfriend. we didnt have s*x, but we pretty much did everything else if you know what i mean, and he never made me climax. i tried to direct him as much as possible, but it just never happened. you should probably just try telling him just what you want. it also helps to know how you climax by yourself, so you should try masturbating.