Never been in this situation before....?

Question

my ex girlfriend breaks up with me and says she want s to be friends. so me and her are cool and have no problem with each other. i see her at a gettogether we say hi then bye. her friend starts talking to me (just talking) my ex comes and pulls her away. when she gets back she says to me i cant talk to you no more. when i ask why she says my ex dosent want her to. her friend tells me that she really liked me but made a choice at the time and dosent know if she regrets it or not. i talk to my ex saying lets talk because i wanted to know where we stand. she says sure. i call she ignores i text she ignores. i see a negative comment on my myspace with here and her friend made directed towards me telling me to f off. so i delete the both of them. now her other friend is trying to add me(i think its my ex on her friends profile) i dont except. i see her at a party now i dont look at her or even talk to her i chill do my thing have fun leave to go to the club and i get a text saying "wow nice seeing you tonite". i dont reply the next day i see something she has written on myspace saying "the worst part is seeing you and not being able to be with you". im thinking she cant be talking to me because shes a ***** to me and plus shes got a new boyfriend. even though i deleted her some how i think she is still seeing my page. i want to write something on my page for my status inplying that i still have feelings for her and would like to get back together if that is what she wants without being to forward so this way i can no shes actually seeing my page.

1) what should i write thats not to forward?

2)do you think she is doing this just so she can toy around with my head?

3)im in the proces of seeing someone new rite now but is it fair to her that i still think about my ex?

4) this is childish but what ever. i dont want to put my self out there and have this girl rejecting me and end up having the upperhand. so how do i not let that happen? or do something to throw her off.

Answer 1

wow ok. just write in your about me single but have someone in mind. she wont know if its her or not but she might think its her. i think she is just stupid. alot of girls want something and then when they get it they dont want it anymore. i think she is just trying to make you mad and see how much you really care about her. and dont dat anyone else untill ur fully over ur ex other wise its not fair like you said. and if you dont want to get rejected just move on from her and try to focus on this new girl. but you really have feelings for this girl then maybe shes worth waiting

Answer 2

She is playing you for the fool.

Show yourself some respect and get her out of your life. If that means getting her friends out of your life also, so be it.

If you let her and her friends treat you without any respect personally, on the net or in any other way and you do nothing but want to play back, tell the new interest that you still need to play the games with the ex and that it is not fair to her so it is in her best interest to find someone more mature and break it off with her. Then whatever happens with the ex and her people, do not complain about it.