Never had a boyfriend help!?

Question

I am a freshmen now, and I know I have to wait a while so I get to know everyone.

I am fourteen, in the middle (I could be popular if I wanted to but I choose not to because of the drama) (not trying to be cocky)

I look 7 or 8 out of 10 (rounded up points from pervious questions)

I act normal and everything and flirt.

What could I be doing wrong?

tips or anything?

Thanks in advance. :)

Answer 1

if u gone to school with the guys at ur school all ur life it maybe because they remember u at the corky stages of adolescents. uhmm maybe being more friendly with the guy u likes best friend because like girls guys tell their frineds who they like and stuff.

Answer 2

Just be yourself! Don't let yourself act like anything your not! Find a guy you think you really like and just hang out with him, flirt, exchange phone numbers.. eventually you'll get a boyfriend..

Sorry if I wasn't much help

Answer 3

if you find out let me know. im 17 and ive had one boyfriend:/  

Answer 4

If you go looking for it, you'll only find losers.

Answer 5

U will get some boy to notice u and everything will be great.

Just be yourself.

Good Luck

Answer 6

Maybe your just not trying hard enough.

Answer 7

Honestly, most guys your age are either afraid of asking you out, or think you don't like them if you are not REALLY throwing yourself at them. I am the same way, but in 8th grade. It's hard if you are shy, or something like that. If you like a guy in particular, just ask him for his phone number and if you can call him sometime, and he will probably say yes and smile.

Answer 8

i disnt get the question

but to get a boyfriend

its easy

u walk up and say "will u go out with me"

Answer 9

Guys are just intimidated buy you.  It is no big deal.  Just focus on your school work.  I recommend listening to "p***y Control" from Prince.  He has a great plan for your situation.

Answer 10

you mustn't worry, just have fun, make sure you look nice and be a nice person (and outgoing ! don't be shy!:D) and it will all work out. be talkative, but not too shallow.

Answer 11

it's hs relax dont try to get a bf now i mean think of school you don't need a guy to make you happy right now i mean when it's time it will happen just relax and don't think about it stay in school

Answer 12

You may be acting more shy and not confident enough. Try putting meeting a guy out of your head and just act normal and have fun with your friends. And before you know it that will attract some guy to you. The real you will attract him. But if you act fake or act desperate to find someone. You will not have a good result. You are only 14 many years ahead of you my friend. I didn't really have a bf until 17 but if we are talking about a real relationship than 18 the other ones were over just as fast as they came. But anyway I wasn't expecting to find love it found me. That's how it should be. Live you life and it will come to you! Work on you Grades and your friendships not on guys that will only waste your years away. Men well I can't even explain it to ya lets just say  they sometimes aren't worth wasting you time over until you meet that one of course. But they use you, abuse you, and move to the next. At least thats is how High School is. Think about this, Do you honestly think a boy in High School really is thinking about Love, Marriage or a girl to at least spend a couple years with? The answer is NO! You want to know what they want at the age?  s*x! That's it period! They want to see how many girls they can sleep with before they get to college for one and to compare with their guy friends for two. Just don't waste you time right now. Good Luck!

Answer 13

What do you need a boyfriend for? To take your mind off your studies? Get you in trouble?  If you read the questions on this site from teeniboppers like you, your right you don't need the drama.

When you have group get togethers you will learn enough about the opposite s*x without having to get emotionally involved.  Give it time, your time will come. There is no rush. Enjoy your friends.