New Swingers..Advice Pls????

Question

me & my hubby are about to have our first swingers experience this saterday..(TOMORROW)!! lol,we've been talking to them on the phone & online all week..so i was wondering if anyone knows of any at-home s*x games?? we have s**y dice,and playing cards,so if anyone knows any s**y card games,(other than strip etc...) pls let us know!!

the more ideas the better..also any other advice or stories from fellow swingers would be awesome..thanks a bunch!!!!

ps:we're new & just wanting to learn all we can about this lifestyle

thanks again!!!

<3Chrissy*

Answer 1

Well, you got all the good games. Just play them and let things happen as they may.

The best advice I&#039;ve ever found for newbie swingers is on The Swingers Board. You&#039;ll find lots of things from both newbie and veteran swinger alike.

Answer 2

We have been swinging for almost 9 years and have been exactly where you are about to be. &quot;Breaking the ice&quot; and getting the fun going can be so difficult, you could find yourselves sitting there most of the night looking at one another. As previously mentioned, begin with your spouse and allow everything else to happen naturally. We never got into too many card games or board games so no advice there. Hopefully, your added partners are more experienced and can take the lead  but never assume that anything will happen. Enjoy the experience for what it is and do not rush anything.

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Good Luck!

Ginni

Answer 3

Well, this probably isn&#039;t the best forum to ask this question as most on here are pretty judgmental and self righteous.  I would recommend posting your question over on www.swingersboard.com.  They are actually very helpful over there.  As for card games...well I don&#039;t know any.  If it were me I would prefer to talk over drinks, maybe play a non sexual card game to get to know other a bit.  Later, dim the lights, start putting the moves on my own partner then let things progress from there.  Have you and your husband talked about ground rules and what you both are comfortable with?  Feel free to email me if you have more questions. Have fun and play safe.