New boyf - bday soon!

Question

Its my bday (hurrah) in couple of days, have new boyf of about 3 weeks, should i invite him out with me and mates or not? Should I expect anything from him at all? If he doesnt want to come out with me should i be annoyed? Thanks!

Answer 1

If you're just casually dating, no.  If you and he are in the beginning stages of what looks to be a blossoming relationship, then yes.  Inviting him to join you and your friends, especially for your Bday, opens a new level of acceptance into your personal life.

Answer 2

Well da, of course you should invite him.  No, you should not get annoyed and should not expect anything from him.

Answer 3

Definitely invite him out with you, otherwise he might feel rejected.

But if he declines the offer don't be upset by it, he might just feel intimidated by meeting your friends.

Don't expect a present either - this way if he does get you one it'll be a nice surprise.

Answer 4

yes u should invite him, u shouldnt expect anything though, if he doesnt wanna come dont be annoyed because hes still prob. adjusting to u & the whole relationship=)

Answer 5

Invite Him i think he would be qutie offended if you didnt at least do that !

Just explain that it will be you an your mates and that he is welcome to come if he wishes but if he would feel uncomfortable it is fine with you if he doesnt want to come.

Or

You could not invite him but arrange for you and him to do something together instead - you could also do this if he doesnt feel comfortable with the party and going with your friends.