New b*tch at school...?

Question

Okay, so my school just started last Monday and we got this new girl. And on the second day of school she started to hang out and talk with my friends. And she started be coming very close with one of my best friends Sabrena. So on the third day she started calling Sabrena her best friend. Which, I don't get that whats so ever because it was only her third day of school. And my other best friend Carlie is like sisters with Sabrena, their very very close friends. And this new girl pretty much just took Sabrena from her. So at lunch time I was sitting with Carlie and she just busted out crying. And I can't stand to see any of my friends cry. So I was there trying to be a good friend and calm her down. And it worked! Then some how this new girl found out about Carlie crying at lunch and she said that she would kick her a**. I don't get it...she is the new girl. I know that she is trying to make new friends and all, but not steel them from their other friends. Then she called me a backstabber and I don't understand because I never really talked to her or anything. Then she told my other best friend Alisha off today and I just flipped right then and there. And I'm like why did you call me a backstabber etc. Okay so I'm just trying to get this all fixed up. What should I do...I mean she keeps on making my friends hurt and stuff. Do you have any idea?

If this helps any I'm in 10th grade!!

Answer 1

just dont be a brat to her. the more u guys fight the worse it will get...

Answer 2

Ah, I've just started 10th Grade, and the same problem has been happening over here. I think you should talk about it with the rest of your friends, especially Sabrina and Carlie. Tell Sabrina what happened with Carlie, and ask how she feels about it.

Answer 3

i think you guys should start up a new group without sabrena.

but don't leave sabrena out when she wants to come and join you guys and if she asks why your not sitting with her and the new girl just say you guys don't like her and that you guys don't want to be around a person that is like that. if she doesn't understand then she's not that good of a friend. the new girl will eventually get on sabrena's nerves and then sabrena will realise what she's missing out on with her old friends and will come back to you guys and sabrena will be on her own..

but that's just saying if everything works out like what i just said....

keep standing up for yourself and your friends

and i agree she is a total *****

=]

Answer 4

maybe since she is new she just wants to try so hard to fit. imagine it in her shoes, if you had to move to a whole new state and school would you like it? its most likely that she didnt even want to move, it was her parents choice. just stay clear of her but cut her some slack.

Answer 5

u will get over it ur young girls .... in a week ull prolly like her and hate sabrena

Answer 6

join the band. Then you won't have any time to think about anything else but music, marching, marching, music, and sweaty bus rides.

Answer 7

First, tell her off if you haven't really done so and then ignore her!! And she didn't take your friend from you, Sabrena decided to do that on her own will.I mean, it's not like Sabrena doesn't have a mind of her own to not realize she's being taken advantage of no? If anyone's a backstabber, it's her. And if she is calling you that, something tells me Sabrena has let her know something that's unfavorable to you. And maybe not even true. I mean from who else would she get it from. Take it from a peer mediator in school, it's better to ignore her than start a fight with her because then you'll sink just as low as she is, and both of you will be know as school b*tches.And I don't think you want that. As for Sabrena, if you get a chance to see her alone, confront her as to why she's deserting you all of a sudden. Friends don't do that unless she's hanging on to you because you're well known in the school or something and she's trying to get a taste of it. Which is BAD!Don't make her choose if it's not like this!  Everything the new girl and Sabrena are doing, think of it as Mean Girls meets Gossip Girl with a splash of the Hills. Don't join the cat fight. The b"tch ain't worth it. As for your friends tell them to be strong and do the same, because the new girl gets satisfaction out of seeing you all suffer. Think of her as a very evil vampire, she wants to suck your friends and maybe well established decorum out of you. And you know what, by being like this, she isn't exactly making friends, she's just getting herself out there in a very bad way. I wish you the best of luck hun, high school ain't gonna be much of a ride if you don't learn to get over stuff like this. It's gonna be more dramatic than that, and it's up to you to know how much you let it get to you. I'm in my final year of high school right now, and let me tell you i didn't allow myself to get stuff like this get to me. It's just dumb.And a waste of time. Move on and make more friends, don't dump Sabrena just yet, only do it when you think its right. If you can find a concordance, then make friends with the new girl too. Who knows, she might never had friends before and doesn't know how to really. It could happen. I wish you good luck and best wishes, you'll get through i promise.

Buena Suerte and much luck,

Ana M.

Answer 8

That's nice.  She's a *****.

Answer 9

Ok, i'm only in year 7 and your in year 10 so im not sure if what im saying is g*y but anyways.What i think is the best thing to do is 1. Talk to your other frends and see what they think of this new girl. 2. Talk to sabrena and tell her how this new girl has been treating you. 3.Talk to the new girl and say stuff like you can't just take my friends away from me. 4.Talk to a school counsellor/teacher

Good luck and i hope things turn out well

Answer 10

Hmm In This Case U  And Ur Both Friend Should Get Together A nd GO TO Sabrina And Tell Her What The New Comer Said To All Of You & If Shes Really Friend Of All 3 OF You She Will Believe U And Will Go Off The Newcomer

Answer 11

You are a tenth grader right... GROW UP some more and stop being selfish. You don't  own your friends.

Answer 12

easy do not talk to her and tell your friends to do the same

Answer 13

Sounds like a manipulative bully.

Try to be her friend. Keep your friends. And after that falls through, disregard her.

Answer 14

God she is an *** whole.That's is such a beach.Tell her to back off and shut her *** whole because that's just mean.Tel your friend Carlie that the new girl was just born bad...

Answer 15

It sounds to me like this new girl needs to grow up.

But heres my advise.

Some of my closest friends are really good friends with the bitchiest girls in school! I hate it! But they know how to stay friends with me and those other girls.

I say sit down and talk to Sabrena with Carlie and straighten things out. If Sabrena wants to be friends with her, let her. But talk to her about how you dont want this new girl to effect your guy's friendship at all.

Now, dont take this the wrong way. But people change. Even your closest friends. I learned that in my 10th grade year. Unfortunately I had to learn the hard way. So dont be surprised.

And whatever this girl says or does to you and your friends, DONT let it bother you. Seriously. It'll stop. She'll get the hint, really. Just tell her to grow up if need be.

Hope this helps a little!

Have fun in your Sophmore year!!

Answer 16

Well, since you are all friends (original group) try to get together to figure out if you are all 'good' then confront the newcomer. See if she will fit in with the old group. If not then agree to tolerate each other but not fight or cause problems.

Unfortunately you are all experiences changes in life. Dreams are changing and others are forming. Everyone will be heading in different directions eventually. Only true friends will remain intact through the he@@ of high school.

Answer 17

Uh, well. Talk to Sabrena with Carlie, like invite them over for something casual. Then you can let her how you feel in a steady enviroment. Don't make Sabrena choose between you and her, just let her know that when she's around the new girl that you guys might keep your distance to keep a blow up from happening. If the new girl comes over and tries to ruin your life, talk to her one on one very politely not accusing her of anything, but say you don't understand why she has said these things.

PS: The problem is not the problem. The problems are attitudes about the problem - Some Sisterhood of Traveling Pants saying

Answer 18

ummm you sure ur in 10th grade... you can have more then one best friend.... i have a group of 6 best friends. noone cares if one hangs out with the other.. grow up... be friends togeher

Answer 19

grow up. your in 10th grade.this is catty nonsense

Answer 20

u can tell ur frnd sabreena abt the situations she is creating and tell sabreena to avoid her

Answer 21

dont let insecure wannabe jealous b*****s ruin your day.

its not worth your time. why waste time being mad at her, isnt that what she wanted in the first place? ATTENTION? dont let her win

or get the  best of you.  

Answer 22

You guys should just push her away and retain your friendships. She is not there to make new friends, she is there to cause drama. No wander she has to go to a new school this fall. She has issues.  

Answer 23

Wow..you're in 10th grade and still deal with stupid c**p like this?

There's no such thing as friends "stealing" other friends from someone. You can have more than one group of friends.

There's no need for anyone to "bust out crying" or have a heart attack..get over it, she's just making friends.

Even if she is being rude about it, just don't deal with it and tell her she's an idiot. You're almost 15?

Grow up and give the stupid drama a rest.

Answer 24

The only thing this new girl needs is some new friends. Try being nice to her, it never hurts. I would try to talk with her and maybe sit with her at lunch. I hope it works out.

Answer 25

The problem is with the new girl.  Let her keep doing what shes doing, every one will eventually abandoned her.      

  No body wants to hang out with a crazy  b**ch right?