I feel really stupid asking this question, but I'm finally at a loss. I've even been talking to some of my colleagues but to no avail; they haven't come up with anything new, either.
So I'm asking for your help.
I am performing a ceremony for a couple that wants to include her daughter (9). The daughter is going to be the flower girl & she might hold the rings but they want to do something else. Only I don't know what that something else should be.
They don't want to present the daughter with a gift (ring/bracelet/necklace). They don't want to do a family unity candle, nor do they want to do a family sand ceremony or a rose presentation. Step dad doesn't want to repeat a vow to her.
They don't want her to do a reading, escort her mother or jump the broom as a family. She doesn't sing or play an instrument, either.
I did think that maybe we could do a symbolic certificate signing like the license or the Jewish Ketubah but it's outside & I won't know the set up until I get to the wedding. They have opted to not have a rehearsal. This is my last idea I have to present to the couple.
Any ideas?
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