New moms (ages 18-25) what is your typical wkend like? (fri-sat)?

Question

do u still have the urge to party like there is no tomarrow??

what age r u..and does your hubby make u feel special at home (if u have one)? or is he out with his boys???

Answer 1

I never partied too much before my son was born. Now he's here though, and i'm always stuck in with him, i get bored easily so do want to get out.

My partner has a very active social life so more often than not i'm sat in on my own while he's out partying.

My bf doesn't really make me feel special, he's no help with the baby (who isn't actually a baby, lol. He's nearly 2 now) and he takes for granted the fact that he goes out whenever he wants.

I still get the odd night out. I was out last Saturday and boy was it fun! ;)

I'm 21 btw.

Answer 2

I've never been a partier and neither have the guys I've been with.  The kinds of things my husband and I enjoy doing on a weekend night now (at 29 and 31) were the same things we liked at 25 and 27--going out to dinner with friends, maybe a movie, maybe shopping, and hanging out at home--none are incompatible with a small infant (well, maybe the movies...but most movies out right now suck, so it's not a huge loss)

You have a baby---you have the right to date night and nights out with the girls, but not every night and not every weekend.

If you can afford a sitter (and the good ones in my area make 20/hr+) give yourself a break every other week.

But remember...it's not about you anymore.  You were mature enough to become a mom...now you need to be responsible enough to take care of your child.

Your husband has the same rights--maybe each of you get a night out a month on a weekend with friends and you get one date night a month with a sitter.  But you need to work on being a family...both of you.

Answer 3

I've never had the urge to party and I never will. Most weekends are like weekdays. I stay with my little one and my Fiance, if he isn't working. We watch movies, read to her, go grocery shopping, out to eat, etc.  My Fiance spends plenty of time with our Daughter and me.

Answer 4

I'm not a mom yet but a friend of mine is 18 and she pawns her baby off as often as she can so her and her BF can act like the kid doesn't exist, and continue to make the same stupid mistakes.

I'm babysitting tomorrow.

I'm married and we don't party much we are at home people.

Answer 5

22 yrs old married and a typical weekend is usually spent hanging out at home the 3 of us (me,my husband, and daughter) sometimes we rent movies, play and read books but usually once a week or once ever two at the least we will have some family or friends over for supper or bbq or we will go there or eat out...but we usually get out once a week for supper with another couple or family! It keeps us feeling like we're doing something but we enjoy our family time although my husband would much rather go ride his motorcycle than "party" but he is having a hard time giving time up for that.....sometimes on the weekends he will spend  1/2  or more of our day riding.....

Answer 6

I'm not that age, I'm 28 now, but became a mom at 18. When I turned 21, I did have my partying phase (thank god for grandparent babysitters). So yeah, I did have that urge, it ended in about 6 months. I do still like to go out and party every now and then. Eventually you just fall into a home and mother life. My boyfriend was out partying like crazy then which caused us to break up. We are together now but he did it for like 5 yrs.