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New "friends" are aholes..what to do?

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I just moved to a town because I am starting college there in a few weeks. I was in the grocery store and I met a group of people my age. 3 girls 1 guy (I'm a guy). We hung out a bit but I have come to notice that they are serious aholes. They always comment on how people look (shes ugly, he has wierd ears), they even made fun of a guy on a wheelchair. these people are serious jerks and are also full of themselves. 2 of the girls used to model so they think they are all that. they are hot but they always brag. i think they only started talking to me because(not to sound conceited) i am goodlooking. they seem like a superficial preppy highschool clique. i really can not stand these people but I just moved here, what do I do? can i ditch them? we have nothing in common also. i will make friends when school starts in a few weeks.

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  1. Don't say they are jerks! Just distance yourself slowly. They'll either get the hint or forget about you.


  2. you're starting college, act like a grown up and tell them exactly what you just said here...they are shallow and un-interesting. you're not going to surround yourself with people like that...or tell them your dad is in a wheelchair and you didn't appreciate the comment...

  3. they can't do anything, ditch them!

    if you really don't have anything in common with them other than being good looking, don't try to force yourself to enjoy their company.. no matter what college you're starting, i'm sure it will be filled with people that have the same interests and beliefs as you, with whom you'll enjoy spending time with..

    once you lose the superficial "friends", all they'll be to you is "a few people i used to hang out with"


  4. - ditch them ( punk move )

    - tell them what you think and maybe they'll get a reality check (productive  move)

    - do what the other girl says and say your dads in a wheelchair ( that will make them shut up)  

  5. well i suppose if you dont have anyone else, see if you can tolerate them for a little longer until you have someone else to hang out with...with school starting in a few weeks youll be able to make friends then...but if you can't tolerate them, then try going out somewhere and meeting new people i suppose. if you ditch them you won't have anyone (if you do have other friends in this town, i don't see why you shouldn't ditch them)

    im not sure its very difficult seeing you just moved.  

  6. ew just get away from them and find some real friends they sound crappy.  if they  confront you about why just tell them theyre immature and really rude and theyre crappy people and you dont care to deal with it.   seriously those kind of people take a while to grow up i cant beleive they made fun of someone on a wheelchair.

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