New requests from the bf?

Question

Well I have never been into these kinds of stuff and I am a bit confused. He wants a 3some. with another guy, well it sounds pretty exciting but the point is that I dont want to lose my bf in case he starts enjoying different people and move on...

How can I accept this offer and at the same time make sure that he will stay with me? By the way I am top and he is the bottom.

Answer 1

Lots of guys fantasize about a threesome - the smart ones keep it as a fantasy!  

Answer 2

Talk about it honestly and openly.  Tell him about your fears.

There are some committed couples that can open their s*x lives to a third party and have it just be a physical thing once in a while.

Set ground rules.  I have a friend that has been with his partner for 15 years.  Every couple months they have a threesome or some kind of group thing.  The rule is never with friends, and never more than once with the same guy.  One time only usually met at a bar or online, and always safer s*x.

Communication is the key.  Sometimes acting out the fantasy can ruin the excitement of it.

Another option is getting a  ummm.. rubber phallic toy and acting the fantasy out with that.  They make them pretty realistic these days!  lol

Whatever you decide good luck to you both!  

Answer 3

don't have a threesome, you will regret it. It only opens up room for problems with trust and loyality. Please reconsider.