New to being popular! aaaaaah!!!?

Question

Ok so I changed school and country. at my old school i wasnt popular at all but had friends. at my new school im kinda popular and have loads of friends. the only problem is i dont know how to behave. i dont know what to talk about. i dont know what to wear. i dont know what to eat.. no joke i knowwhat to eat i eat whatever i want to eat :D i dont know anything so if all of you popular people out there could give me some hints and advice id be really thankful!

btw if u tell me to not be popular or something like that... forget it and dont tell me to be myself cos at the moment im lost

so any ideas PLEASE!! Im begging you!!!

even something i didnt mention up there like what to wear to parties what to give away for presents and cards and stuff anything will help me!!

thank you sooooo much!!

Answer 1

It's one thing to be popular but to stay popular is more difficult.

BE CONFIDENT.

You can wear, eat , read, talk and be pretty much how you want to be if you are confident and nice to everyone then you will stay popular!

Always act really chilled and be really nice to everyone. Stick up for the most popular ring leaders if you ever get the chance and befriend them. (only if they are nice people as well as being popular!)

To wear - Have your own style but have a base of fashionable stuff. just wear stuff that is cool and suits you. Wear shorts and tights/leggings or skinny drainpipe jeans on the bottom. (Can't really help here because the fashions may be different where you are!)

Eat well and not really unhealthily and people will look up to you. eat cleanly too.

Which country are you in?? it helps if i know!

I am popular at my school so if you tell me then i'l give you tips!!

x*x

Luckily I've just been on  a french exchange with a cousin and so I know that some of the fashions are the same.

I know you didn't want me to say this but 'be you' and wear stuff that suits you. Wouldn't you rather look amazing in your own style than look stupid in fashions that don't suit you?

Do wear things that the other popular people wear but be original and then you will become more followed by  others because of your uniqueness and confidence.

Always look ell groomed - like neat make-up and not dishevelled and messy.

For a party just make sure you are wearing a similar principle as your friends but try to stand out in a good way.

Good luck being popular - and remember -the key is CONFIDENCE.

x*x

please best answer!!

p.s. Remember that you are already popular so you're obviously not doing a bad job! If you try not to fall out with anyone and are always nice then people will like you!

Answer 2

First of all if they like you now that's how you should continue to act.

There isn't a 'popular' way to act, you're well liked because of however you are so I think this is kind of silly that your asking this.

Posting on a forum asking how to be cool is not cool it seems like your just going to turn out fake and trying to hard.  

Answer 3

ahh . talk about the stuff they do  (: ?

&wear some of the same brands they dddddo .

Answer 4

just be you,keep normal converstions,eat whatever you want,its not like there gonna care what you eat,lol.

alot of popular people only want your to hang with there group which is fine,but just keep a positive attitude with others outside your group as well.

yay to us popular people! :)

Answer 5

agrees with katie

they will love you no matter what!

Answer 6

how old are you?

you don't ask other people how you should act! that's retarted!

act like yourself. talk about things you like. wear stuff YOU think is cute. eat food that tastes good.

people will be impressed by your confidence and ability to THINK FOR YOURSELF.

and you will become friends with the people that are best for you.

EDIT: and if you have to continue to act a certain way to stay friends with a certain group, then they aren't worth being friends with! you don't want to be fake!

be friends with people that like you for who you are.