Nightmare about being raped?

Question

A couple of nights ago, I had the nightmare of being raped by a guy, when my boyfriend is sleeping. In the dream,we are travelling in a car and get lost. My boyfriend is sleeping outside the car. I am walking in an isolated place which looks like a multilayerd parking lot which has not been maintained well. I can hear water dripping from the ceiling. I want to ask some one for directions. I see this man coming near me, but try to avoid him. He manhandles me. I shout at him. He sniggers and looks at my boyfriend who is sleeping. I realize whats going on in his mind and start moving towards my boyfriend and parallely trying to call him to wake him up. I try to scream for help and wake him up, but am unable to shout more than a whisper. I have been having a lot of emotional problems in my realtionship with my boyfriend as his parents dont agree for our wedding and are interfering with our life. I am not sure if this is the reason. Please advice. The nightmare was very unsettling.

Answer 1

That nightmare sounds very unsettling, I do agree. I happen to be studying in Psychology, and I hear of these stories often in relationships. Unfortunetly, there is not much you can do about his parents' disagreeing on your boyfriend's choices, but it is not their decisions.

Anyways, your nightmare is not rare, but if it is constant, it could mean other things. Your best bet is to talk to a marrige councler or professional psycologist, as there is not much I can do seeing as I don't know anything about your parents or past life experience. See what happens within the next week or so, and if it persists, consulting a proffesional may be in order.

I hope that this helps

Answer 2

In Dream Meanings it says:

"rape: it suggests that you are feeling violated in some way. Something or someone is jeopardizing your self-esteem and emotional well-being. You feel that someone or something is being forced upon you."

Answer 3

if it was very realistic its likely to actually happen don't go any were

Answer 4

  It is stress related,you feel as though you have no control and you are feeling as though you are trapped by these "new family,Or soon to be new family members"

  Maybe this supposed rape,(and please don't think that I take your fear lightly,)well maybe it is that you feel they have power over you,and due to this that they may "take your boyfriend away it's always a  possibility....not that he will leave but there are those familys that try to chamge his mind,but if he loves you it won't matter.....

please look these things up in a dream book or seek expert advice as well,you cna find alot of answers in anybook store with the dream or occult or new age sections,they have books on these subjects...good luck!

  

Answer 5

i think that it's just a stress nightmare. if u have the nightmare repeatedly then try talking to someone like a close friend or family member about it. but like i said it is probably just a stress thing.

and keep your head held high hun.

everything will work out.

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Answer 6

yeah. it's pretty much cuz you're stressed out with his parents not agreeing. there may be more reasons. such as problems with your bf or yourself. you have to think it through.

-hope this helps.

Answer 7

the reason for the nightmare was probably because of your real life fears. even if you weren't exactly fearing being raped, maybe it didn't even come up in your head. often our mind has visions of our summed up fears, worries, thoughts and experiences. it doesn't mean that any of it is going to come true. your dealing with lots of cases right now, relating to your boyfriend. that's a logical reason of why he was in your dream. your fearing of something happening to you, with either him being out of your life or a part of the problem. so the dream kind of substitutes this case with a different situation but the same theam. I'm not trying to sound like a phychic or anything.sorry if this confuses you or sounds strange, lol. just relax, and stop worrying. there are safer ways to handle problems in life. im sorry about your boyfriends parents, but remember, its your life, so no matter what they say, you make your own desicions. good luck.

Answer 8

This means that you don't feel as though your boyfriend listens to you very well.  That is causing some fear for you.

Answer 9

First of all, avoid watching movies that are related to your dreams and second, your dream is not related to your wedding. Forget about your boyfriend's parent, if they don't agree with the wedding then so be it. Its your own wedding not theirs.

Answer 10

i think if u were having trouble with ur boyfriend then this dream was telling u that ur coming apart from ur boyfriend and ur trying to get him back! so in ur dream u r calling for him like u r in real life! get it? i do its not bad its just u need ur boyfriend alot more than u think right now~ hope i helpd

Answer 11

feeling vonerable.

Answer 12

Talk to the boyfriend about the nightmare. When he comforts you, you'll feel better and realize that though you guys are having emotional problems now, you think each other is woth the time and effort to work through them.

AKA: it's a nightmare, it's unsettling but it's not real. Focus on your real life worries and work through them rather than your imaginary worries.

Answer 13

rape is not a good thing since it happened to me at a young age..you may be having a future dream that might happen..or you can be dreaming this as you may not trust your boyfriend or something but if you are dreaming this it not right...are you worried about anything ?