No b o n e r! Confused! Help?

Question

Okay, so I had a lap dance at a strip club the other day and it was quite intense, but I couldn't get an erection. It was my second experience and I wasn't any luckier the first time either! I was quite embarrassed... Any tips and/or advice? Thanks!

Answer 1

Sounds like Erectile dysfunction to me , go see your doctor.

Answer 2

maby you were just a bit embarssed about it...

Answer 3

no need to ring the alarm. Very few men do not like the friction that happens with a lap dance. you are possibly a hands on approacher. Prof Gazpacho already said it was not allowed. Just enjoy what you are getting and when you hightail it out of there, take it out on the nearest partner/friends with benefits/ or whomever you are doing.lol. Show her what the other nameless hot gal was missing. Go daddy its your birthday.lol

Answer 4

The most probable answer is that your nerves overcame your sexual thoughts and senses, loosen up a bit, stop worrying/thinking about it too much and enjoy the situation.

Answer 5

do you m********e on a regular bases??i did more so when i was late teens early 20s and same thing, go 2 weeks or so with out spanking it and it should work. if not see a urologist. i cut down on masturbating this week and i had a a almost wet dream and it felt like i was gonna *** when i woke up.cant wait till the wify comes home tonight i didnt finsh what the dream was doing, it was a dream of a very wet virgina i remember it like it was real.lololol maybe im hitting my mid/late 20s peak? owel ill just enjoy it

Answer 6

< --- Been to several strip clubs all over the nation and their been many lap dances that I've been erection-less or semi erected.  All depends if I'm alone with her in the private/dark area or she is giving me a lap dance right out where everyone else is sitting.  Don't worry.  No problems.  Just relax and enjoy, especially since its costing you a pretty penny

Answer 7

Yeah.. frmo my observations, that seems to be a fairly normal reaction, mate. It obviously can be very difficult to get and maintain an erection when you are in the spotlight... I think you gotta be a bit of an exhibitionist yourself... and seems most guys are not.

If you just get all the other people out of your mind, then you only have to think about the lady on your lap...   the difficulty I have with lap dancers is that you aren't allowed to touch unless invited and that can be quite inhibiting, since Im a taste and smell sort of guy... and as a general rule... lap dancers don't like being licked ... pinched, slapped and sniffed... lol!

But whisper in her ear and try to get her phone number for later. If nothing else, the show will get better.

Answer 8

u probably felt awkard embaressed? maybe ur a shy guy and you couldn't relax enough to get turned on?? chill out n enjoy urself n it will come! its probably cus ur thinking about it too much and worrying why ur not getting one which puts it off even more!

Answer 9

maybe your g*y