No-body's ever ready for love, yet if you were to meet the perfect person, would you be perfect for them ?

Question

I'd say I'm ready whenever they are… lol

In the battle of the sexes, is 'Love & Marriage' really just it’s temporary ceasefire?

is that all it is?

Answer 1

Tara Hot T, you are a staunch femi, but I do like you very, very much and I wish to kiss you.  I'd like to arrange for a meeting (now that Fender is gone lol).

Answer 2

I never had to declare a ceasefire, temporary or otherwise, since I've never been at war with men. Now do you understand why you're still single? ♥ ∞

EDIT: Yeah, so jealous. *yawn* [lol] ♥ ∞

Answer 3

I hope that marriage is more than just a TEMPORARY ceasefire.

I am not engaged in a battle with men and never have been.

As far as perfection is concerned, I know I am not perfect and I have no expectations of perfection from others.  I do my best and hopefully that will be enough.

Answer 4

'Love & Marriage' is really just like a horse and carriage, but who is the horse?

As for the perfect person, one is ready if we know ourselves and are not pretending

I like to be around people who live for the moment, not yesterday or tomorrow, which never comes

Those are the women that are as sound as a pound. lol

Answer 5

Life just happens.. so always expect the unexpected..

Answer 6

The Cinderella syndrome is simply a myth.  Deal with reality and you'll be just fine.

Answer 7

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KAKaJE4gj...

Answer 8

i think i would be

Answer 9

There are five kinds of perfect I have come to know of, so far.

1, The idea that a person can be and is perfectly themselves. Faults, flaws and all.

2, A perfect moment. All is as it should be.

3, Just perfect - having attained or achieved exactly what was meant to be done.

4, A lie - often in the context of a white lie and/or where other words fail to do justice to what is desired to be expressed.

5, Misconception that results in self deception creating disharmony.

If I meet the perfect person, they will be in terms of 1 as will I, maybe happening at 2, seeming that we can be achieving a and  3 fairly often, occasionally resulting me in resorting to 4 to describe appearance and hoping that Im not in the middle of doing 5 until Im happy that Im not.

Answer 10

No, love is more than that-it is what makes us human!

Answer 11

Lol no...gender differences and gender wars only exist if you want them to. Everyone can get along if they want.

Answer 12

Getting round to it, best to lose the suitcases before the next flight, men, avoid feminists, cat women and smoking crack.

Answer 13

what makes you think nobody's ever ready for love?  I've been around the block often enough to know there is no "perfect person" - my expectations are much more realistic.  Perhaps expectations are the REAL issue.  

So, if you're looking for Mr. Perfect and not willing to 'settle' for less, maybe you should  also expect to live alone for a long, long, long time.

Answer 14

I gave up on love a long time ago then along came a man who change my world. I never thought i would find love but i did and have been happy for 3 years now. I thought i had been in love before but now i realise i wasn't cos now i know what real love is i will never go back.

Answer 15

That's a good point. Just because you meet someone who is perfect for you, doesn't mean that you will fit their ideal in return. It's so sad when that happens. Makes me glad that, when I met DH and thought he was just right, he was thinking the same thing about me. It would've killed me to see him fall in love with someone else.

Love and Marriage doesn't have to be a temporary ceasefire. Marry someone you don't want to shoot at in the first place, and it will be peaceful and great.