No condom, got Plan B..should I tell him? ?

Question

I have been seeing this guy, long distance, for about 6 months. This past weekend we had s*x and didnt use a condom. I started getting scared cause even though we didnt "finish" I know theres still a chance of anything..this morning I went and got plan B. Im wondering if i should even tell him that I got it...that Im scared. I know some girls deal with this on their own...some guys dont wanna get involved when it comes to it..and he's 3 ours away so physically theres not much he can do..any advice? no nasty or dumb responses, Im kinda in a "lesson learned" situation..

Answer 1

no

Answer 2

Of course you need to tell him! Sheesh, you are getting naked and doing the wild monkey dance with him and you can't tell him this? DO IT.

(Then talk to your mom about birth control, and protecting yourself from STDs, HIV/AIDS.)

Answer 3

No i wouldn't tell him, i don't know what type of person he is, but i have a friend who has a bf that does not like to use condoms at all and he would accidentally do his business in her, and then say i don't know what the big deal is just go get the pill well she ended using that pill every month for 9 months straight and it didn't work she ended up becoming pregnant. It's really not a big deal so i wouldn't stress about it, also its not like you were pregnant then went and got abortion then told him after the fact.

Answer 4

I got Plan B once in our first month of marriage!! I didn't tell him because he would have been so upset. Considering the fact that you're dating and long distance, he probably won't be too upset knowing that you did what you thought was right.

Next time, just make sure that you listen to your lesson learned.

Answer 5

you don't have to tell him unless you get prego. also always use a condom. Perfect example my mothers best friend just got a divorce from her husband of 22years. Early this year he told her that he had been living with aids for 12years and when she went to the doctor they told her she didn't have aids and she said it was because they always used protection even though they were together for what seemed like forever. I personally think its weird to use condoms for that long when you are married but it saved her life. so i hope everything works out and make sure to use protection

Answer 6

If it was me, I probably wouldn't tell him. If he wasn't worried of the consequences, then why involve him. But on the other hand. Maybe telling him would put the fear in him on what can and does happen when you have s*x unprotected. Then maybe next time he will be prepared. But he could get scared and not sleep with you again, thinking"oh no, what if I had gotten her pregnant" but its all up to you whether you tell him or not. You are taking the plan B, so you should be good to go. If you choose not to tell him, just make sure you get on birth control and bring condoms the next time you see him. Because it doesn't seem that he is that worried about what could happen to you, but you should be worried, which it sounds like you are.  Good luck  

Answer 7

Wow.  Honestly is the best policy.  If you value your relationship and you love him, why wouldn't you tell him?  If you can't tell him this, how many other things are you going to keep from him to spar his feelings... Be tactful and most importantly be honest and upfront. (period)