No contact rule help with Ex please 10 points up for grabs?

Question

Im currently doing the no contact rule with my Ex girlfriend of 3 years( she dumped me) and after of using it a week she is showing signs of wanting back, using any excuses to get in touch, i have been ignoring her, should i ignore her until she says she wants me back or shall i play her games? what do you guys think?

Answer 1

Ok im gunna be a little hard on you. If you keep pushing her away and ignoring her she will give up trying or like most girls she may keep trying and a guy may come along and she may thinkhey im single and he wont answer my phone calls so why dont i just go ahead and talk to him. my and my ex was doing the same thing and i went to my guy friend who is very nice and caring well lets just say me and my guy friend are now together and very happy and he is my Mr. Perfect. So if you keep pushing she may find her Mr. Pefect and forget about you. Now thats good for her but may suck for you. Once i stopped calling my ex boy did he blow my phone up. You will realize once she stops that you miss her and you will think about every thing and you will be the one calling her. If you dont love her then you may just me like S**t thank god she stopped calling. So if you lover her and want her pick the phone up if not then dont leave it alone. Good luck!!!

Answer 2

i believe with the saying "sweeter the second time around."give her a chance to show how much she was sorry for dumping you before and how much she cared now by making some excuses just to contact you.maybe she was just confused before thats why she dumped you and now she realized how much you mean to her.if you still have a feeling about her  take her back into your life and start all over agian and dont make it so hard for her,if you dont have feeling anymore i suggest not to played with her eventhough she hurts you before.think how your relationship before work and then you decide..its your choice!

relationship is not all about playing,remember "give love and be loved"

Answer 3

Definitely keep up the no contact for another couple of weeks! If you give in too easily she will take you for granted when/if you get back together. She won't lose interest, unless you take it to the extreme like ignoring her for months, but if I was in her position it would make me work harder to try and win you back!! Treat 'em mean keep 'em keen can be a good way to play it if you've been dumped and they want you back. Good luck and hope you get back together :) xx

Answer 4

Play games with her, have some fun with this.

Answer 5

If you want her back then don't play games - girls don't like that and if you do end up getting back together then it will make your relationship weaker. Also if you do decide to play games them somewhere in the back of your mind you mustn't really want her back. But if she dumped you because she was a total beeyoch and you don't want then play games with her mind and make her regret ever having broke ur heart <3

Answer 6

dont mean to should evil but if she dumped you for a stupid reason play the game unless you like her a whole lot?! =D

Answer 7

Life is too short and games r for children...

Answer 8

Well since she dumped you...you should do whatever you want. If you want to get back with her then do it. But if you don't...play her stupid game & entertain yourself.