No friends and depressed?

Question

ok my bestie left me n my other friend which i rang today never called back schools are opening and i dunno what to do how to make friends i m funny i love to laugh but i dunno why ppl always seem to dislike me and call me crazy for no reason i dunno what to do to get friends i dont wanna be alone at school.what should i do to make them like me?i never harm anyone but still..

Answer 1

Dear Lord, with writing like that I can understand why you have no friends.  You are destined to be an old and miserable cat lady that orders take out just to avoid going out in public.

Answer 2

what, if you are laughing and always happy you should keep that attitude. if school is starting and you dont know anybody just make new friends! say hi my name is _____ and introduce yourself, and maybe they will accept you.

i kinda understand you bc i always change schools and i love to laugh and am crazy and everything, but in a new school i kinda find it hard to settle in and have my reserved personality out as my first impression..then the people will start thinking i'm such a boring person and not be friends with me...so you should be more outgoing now no matter how nervous you might feel :)

hope i helped!

Answer 3

You sound young. Have you ever been evaluated for learning or  disorders like dyslexia, attention deficit, bi-polar, etc.? I as because these can be major factors in how you learn and what you think about yourself... also, these kinds of disorders affect how others see you.  Go to www.dailystrength.com to see how mental and emotional disorders impact others, and what they do about it. Be aware and cautious about how & who diagnosis you. Even professionals can be very wrong about what is going on. The upside to daily strength, is that you can connect with people having similar issues. Good luck young lady.

Answer 4

First try to understand the people who you say are your friends.Understanding is important.and remember everyone likes happy and joyful friends.

Answer 5

Don't change to make people like you. Just be yourself. Try to watch the other people at school to see if there is anyone like you, and try to make friends with them.

Answer 6

Maybe there is something wrong with the people you are trying to make friends with. Sometimes its hard to make friends. You just need to surround yourself with positive people. By maybe going to social activities or join clubs. It is hard to make friends sometimes. Doesn't mean there is something wrong with you. Just pick different people. Start conversation with people and smile. Don't take personal if some people are a******s that is part of life.