No idea whether im straight, bi, or g*y?

Question

i have dated both guys and girls and yet still i dont know my sexuality. i know that i am definitely more comfortable around guys physically but that i can talk better with girls and have a better emotional connection. i was also extremely embarased to be seen with a girl and to be honest i think this was the main reason i broke up with her. i usually feel very uncomfortable when a girl touches me, but i know that i can like them from a distance. with a guy i am more comfortable, however i always feel like i have to please a him and try harder more than with a girl. i am attracted to a women's sweetness and a man's comfort. so honesty please, any help, thoughts, opinions? thanx so much

Answer 1

baby you are bi ,what thing that you don't find in boys you find in girls ,it is ok and don't worry about what you are worry about have fun in s*x lol

Answer 2

i'd say g*y.  i've had some of those same feelings, but i know i'm g*y.  i think most of it was wishful thinking to be honest...

Answer 3

hey I think u are bi more to g*y, or totally g*y. cuz I mean g*y men can have emotional connect with girls too but they just like them from a distance. Although as u say it seems like u need to please a guy much harder than a girl, to me it's just u haven't find the right guy yet. so don't worry, u will find the right one.

and get back to the question, Dr. Kinser designed a scale from 0 to 6 as totally g*y to totally straight,0 is g*y and 6 is straight, and he said everybody in this world is in between of the scale and there's no totally g*y or straight. I think u might be somewhere at 2 or 3 but I still think u like guys more than girls. because there's a big part that values it is that u feel "extremely uncomfortable to be seen with a girl". physical contact says a lot and since u feel very uncomfortable then u must be more prefer guys then.

Answer 4

you sound pretty straight to me, straight but not narrow. i'm kind of the opposite, i feel more physically comfortable with other women, but i have more emotional connections to guys. i consider myself a L*****n.

good luck figuring it out, but don't put too much effort into worriing about the labels. just be with who you want to be with.

Answer 5

Gurl, you are ALL THE ABOVE!!!! Dating males & females makes U bisexual, I don't care how U flip it...one gurl, 2,3 or 4 it don't matter, after your 1st, u r considered bi and ain't no goin bac.

Answer 6

me neither /:

Answer 7

g*y

Answer 8

doesn't matter does