No one answered my last question, please help! Question about Ex-Girlfriend...?

Question

My ex-girlfriend (almost 3 years), and I have split up. We broke up well because we are going to different Universities and we won't be able to see each other more than maybe 3 times a year. She said that if we're not seeing anyone when University is over, we could get back together. So that's the first question - Is that possible? After not seeing each other often at all, will we still wanna be together?

And my second question is, she's coming up for the first time to my house as my friend, and not as my girlfriend. I really don't know what to do. We're going out for food tonight with friends, but we've got 3 hours to waste in the house, just the two of us.

Any ideas? Nothing that is gonna confuse anything - So no stupid suggestions please?!

Answer 1

Do you still like her?

How come you will only see her no more than 3 times a year?

Won't by the time university is over then you'll have both met someone new?

If she's coming over to your house now, then why would she wanna break up now when you guys have still got a decent amount of time to be together before Uni?

If she really likes you she'd stay with you, right?

If you can answer all of these questions, realise that maybe shes trying to tell you something.

Goood Luck.

Answer 2

I believe with love anything is possible...but if u like her and she likes you I don't even think breaking up would be neccesarry. U guys can call each other...and see each other over webcam and stuff...and actually u can visit each other anytime if u really wanted 2. And about the not seeing each other 4 awhile and still wanna be together part....I think its possible...actually it could make u like them even more. And the 3 hours u guys got 2 waste on..i guys u can talk about the past...or ask about if they've been seeing anyone..or is interested in anyone (becuz u guys r friends at the moment) and or watch a movie..play games...take pictures..go 2 the mall...so on. Did that help? Lol..good luck tho :D

Answer 3

She's very sensible to take this time when you'll be apart so much. If you really have the basis of a lasting relationship, it will still be there in 3 years. Get your degree! Then see if you still want the same things and have enough in common to base a strong relationship.

Three hours should give you lots of time to talk this out, see what you like about each other now and find out if you want the same things out of life. So many people never have a discussion like this. That's why there are so many divorces.

Answer 4

Listen anything is possible. You COULD get back together when your done with your school. But that also depends on what happens in between the time your not together though. If she is coming over as a friend, so be it. PLay it cool, don't be that crazy ex, show her that your in control of your emotions. If you do have three hours all just with her, like i said play it cool...let nature take its course. You do not want to lose this girl completely. Its tough I know.

Answer 5

I can see that she wants her emotional freedom at Uni - after all, she'll be working hard and meeting lots of new people, and so will you. She's being very realistic - I'd bet you a pint that you do get back together with a whole new depth to the relationship!

And- only THREE hours to talk about your work, your new friends, that really annoying guy who interrupts in class, how long you have to submit work, how brilliant your fave lecturer is, how awful your non-fave is, what clubs you've joined, who got thrown out of the bar..................if you can get that lot into three hours you deserve a double 1st each!