No one in my family is giving me info atention that i need

Question

evrey time i want to tell them good news they just say yah and they didnt even listen to what i said and me and my twin brother are in the gymnastics and when we came back i wanted to tell them that we won and when i told them they ignored me and when my brother told them they said lets go celebrate and i have a 3 month old baby sister that gets all the attention and im the only one who no body listens to its like im not even there i hate it what can i do

Answer 1

may they were tired at the time u ask them anything

don`t think that they not care of u

they love u

but didn`t show...........

may be they just got to much busy to listen to u anymore............

try to realize them ur importance at home

Answer 2

Yes they are focusing on the baby - she "needs attention" - you just want to be acknowledged - take some time during a family dinner or a time where the family is all together - let them know that you do not need constant attention but you feel as though you've been neglected lately - they'll get the point. Good Luck!

Answer 3

As you named your avatar "mememe" it seems like you may be spending most of your time "look at me!"  "see what I did"  "it's all about me, me, me!!!".  Maybe they're trying to tell you that instead of ME you may want to mention "our team" won at gymnastics or WE did something.  Looks like you're not the baby girl of the family any more.  However, your brother will always be the oldest boy.  Find something that makes you unique - different from your twin.  OK, you're good at gymnastics, but try something different.  Like if both of you are doing the parallel bars, then you should try the floor exercises instead.  Or do something else, like ice skating, volleyball, softball.  (I'll bet Dad would love it if you were on a softball team.)

Answer 4

you need to learn to pat yourself on the back and quit yearning for others' approval.  you'll be better off in life later.