No self confidants so can you please help girls?

Question

hi i really want to have girlfriend because its been 6 months now since i have broken up with my ex. but when i see girl that i like and i want to go up to but i have no self confidants because i don't' know what to say. and i think that they are going to lough at me .was at school i got picked on all the time so that has made me have a low self esteem.

Answer 1

Hi

I know the problem and i have in the past have some big problems with my self coconfidants

Then i began to workout and talked with a lot of people about my shape and that helped me a lot.

Try the community www.seek4fitness.net there is a lot of nice people the and you can use all there for free workouts, forum, exercises and neutrition programs

best off luck

Answer 2

Why dont you try joining some sort of class or something? perhaps take an evening course in something you are interested in. That way you will meet new people and maybe gain some confidence. If you just look for friends then something more may come from that. Your new frineds might know someone perfect for you. Or there may even be someone in the class that you like and could try making friends with them first?

If not, then it might at least help develop your confidence.

Or maybe take up a hobby, sports, etc?

Answer 3

Come on. Be yourself, they are probably bigger losers, as they tease you with these problems, which means they are jealous and not mature yet.

Forget your ex, get some better girl. There is plenty fish in the sea. And you know what is cool ? they ale have been waiting for you.  

Answer 4

Self Confidence... that's a start.