Not a question, more a statement !!!?

Question

i have GIVEN UP.. f**k it, i get stressed EVERY month that aunt flo comes into town, and i am h**l to live with. After a heartbreaking false alarm previous month, i have decided to knock the TTC on the head. I have had enough!!!

Good luck to everyone else though! x*x

Answer 1

welcome to the club,no i m not a quitter,but we all feel the same at one point or another.its going to happen when its meant to happen,ur job is to keep on trying.remember a quitter never wins & a winner never quits.

Answer 2

to be honest with you I think that when you "try" and are thinking about it too much it just dont happen!

when I thought to h**l with it I fell pregnant that month...

Answer 3

Me 2 ive stopped with the ovulation fertility monitor now i just have s*x whenever i want 2

Answer 4

I know exactly how it feels!!!!!!! We'v been trying for 16 months now.......... i dont know how many times i told myself "I give up" but i just cant stop thinking about it.... i cant let another month go by without trying ... i wish i could but i just want a baby SO BAD ... AND I HATE HOW PEOPLE TELL U JUST RELAX AND IT WILL HAPPEN -BULL!!!!!!!!! it doesnt.  So whatever you decidde to do DO IT AND BE STRONG!!! EVENTUALLY YOU WILL WIN!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

your actually probably taking the right step ttc shouldn't become your life, have s*x and enjoy and i can almost GUARANTEE you'l fall pregnant.

Answer 6

Maybe you are too stressed.  Just relax, enjoy s*x, and maybe it will happen when you least expect it.  :) Good luck!

Answer 7

I understand the way you are feeling. In fact, I was right there with you about 8 months and a half ago.

Good thing is... that's exactly when I got pregnant!!!!

So I'm still gonna wish you good luck and baby dust... maybe taking that pressure off of your shoulders will be exactly what you needed ;)

x*x

Answer 8

Me too, it's been the 9th month. AF is due tomorrow & I will be disappointed if she comes but I will try again next month. I will be seeing OB after x'mas (12 mth failure) to see if anything can be done. Please don't give up.  

Answer 9

I'm sorry your so upset, I have been ttc for 6 months now and growing more frustrated every day, so this month I am not using an opk or tracking anything. I have decided to just relax and baby dance every other night to cover any possible ovulation days. Our s*x life was becoming to pressured and mechanical and taking away from the romance part. We are just going to have fun, drink plenty of wine...lol and relax. My doctor said that their truly is something to the fact that the harder you try, the longer it will delay conception. The stress messes up our hormones and screws up the whole conceiving process.

Answer 10

umm sure

Answer 11

my sister gave up after 5 year of trying. She made an appointment with doctor and day before realised she missed her monthly so done a test and found out that she was pregnant, her little boy is 2 now and she had a scan on a second pregnancy yesterday and his 12 weeks.

Good luck. Don't give up. Just relax and don't give yourself a hard time and maybe it will happen.

Answer 12

that's good that you have given up maybe you can relax a bit that's when it usually when it happens naturally when your not stressed or worried over it just relax and enjoy your life and may baby dust fly your way

Answer 13

I felt the same way last month. With my son we werent even trying and he only came in me 1-3 times. Last month I stressed and thought about it non stop. I said I'm not even trying this next month, but,,, we usually dont have s*x every day or every other day. I figured if I still want one I have to try a little anyways. This month I have had s*x before, on, and after my ovulation. I haven't thought much about it throughout the day. I have came to terms that if I don't get pregnant, then it must not be the right time. God must have other plans. Besides the Bible says everyone has a time to be born and a time to die. I guess my next will be born when he's ready! Hope this helps. Don't give up, just don't stress so much, and enjoy. Good Luck

Answer 14

you should never give up, it will happen one day. good luck