Not again !!! men & woman.?

Question

What is it about our culture that leads so many of us to cheat on our partners. Is it the lack of vows before God? I just don't know, I think I'm gonna puke. I am 44 yrs old & got ditched after 8 yrs. All threw my life, people have been breaking my heart. Jesus! this has to be like the 20th time. I think I am going to be lonely.

Answer 1

Don't be silly -- it has nothing to do with vows before God, Goddess, or random animal spirit.  It is the nature of humanity.  Pure monogamy is NOT a natural development, it is enforced.  Straight people routinely cheat on their partners and so forth -- it is not all that much, except we make it so much.

Jonathan and I have been together 16 years -- but we understand the social matrices and cultural pressures -- and make our own decisions in defiance of them, across a wide spectrum of things.

Talk - communicate, discuss, have  a relationship that is neither constrained by your fears or your given expectations.  Just push forward and care -- you will not end up lonely.

Regards,

Hermes

Answer 2

I think we are paying for the sin of all those g*y party goers doing at the 70s.