Not feeling guilty.....dont want it....confused?

Question

k so me and my boyfriend of like i dont even know how long, not that long just dont know when the relatioship started. Anyways we had a sleep over last night behind my moms back. I dont care that it was wrong. Anyways we didnt sleep together but we did things. Ive done these things before with other guys. and more. he hasnt. for some reason it wasnt that great. i didnt find it that good at all. i really like this guy but i kinda find it like i dont want to be around him anymore. i really like him though. but we just end up making out or doing other things. i dont want it from him. i dont feel guilty but i feel like ****, i just dont want it i guess..

questions;

should i tell my mom?

i need a way to get rid of these thoughts of him and i doing these things, suggestions? before my mom comes home, dont want to sound or be guilty.

have i lost interest in this guy?

i also think that i am wayyyy more mature then he is, and im not sure if i like that or not, more experienced and hes older, by a bit. soo confused

its like i dont want him to come over and dont want him to touch me and i like our time together but all we do it makeout all the time or go to movies and then makeout, i dont want that, i dont want that in any guy. we also kinda rushed it. its wierd because when we first met he was the most shy nervous person ever and now hes the one making the moves. i dont understand. i dont want to be with him and i dont want to hang out iwth him or anything i just dont want to, but i do like him, or did or i dont knowthere was a time where i really liked him, before we even started like dating or anything i don tknow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Just tell him the truth, that you don't think your relationship is working, sorry!

You probably just weren't as attracted to him as you thought.

You could tell your mother so you don't feel so guilty.

But you should care that you have a boy sleeping in your room behind her back. That is very wrong.

Talk to the boy and talk to your mother.

It will  be okay, just be smart when it comes to messing around with these boys.

Good Luck and God Bless

Answer 2

just tell him the truth!

and if ur mom is cool enough to handle it then tell her the truth to!

Answer 3

omg iv sooooo been there

well u got a couple options

1, u can try talkin to him about it and im sure he'll understand

2, take a break from the relationship to clear ur mind and figure out if u really like him or not

3, yes tell someone if not ur mom then someone really close to u like a friend ur somethin

get a friend to hang around with u and ur bf for a little cause then she will stop u from doin anything

but do somethin because i never did anything and now me and my bf are broken up for good

but dont let him pressure u into anything that u dont want to do

good luck :)<33

but do someth

Answer 4

I have been in somewhat the same situation...and I am guessing you wish you could go back to what you guys were before. sadly...in time I have realized that you can't do that....you could tell him how you feel, and how you're confused....and you just need some time to think. if you just want to end it ...then you need to break up with him...you can't keep him hanging on

Answer 5

" Anyways we had a sleep over last night behind my moms back. I dont care that it was wrong. "

That sentence right there shows your immaturity and you say you're too mature ? Sleeping around with guys doesn't make you mature little girl so please grow up and respect your mother first ..because if you keep this up someday you will be a mommy too ...and I doubt you would want to hear your kid say  " Anyways we had a sleep over last night behind my moms back. I dont care that it was wrong. "

Take care !

Answer 6

It sounds to me as if you have lost interested in the boy.  If you have questions about it that makes it a fact.  If it were true feelings you wouldn't have questions.  You need to stand up, maybe tell your mom how you are feeling.  Tell him as nicely as possibly that you like him but would like to move on.  Let him know it doesn't have anything to do with him personally or anything that he has done, just that your feelings have changed.  Don't spend time with someone because you don't have the nerve to tell him.  You are not being fair to yourself or to him.  Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

If he hasn't had s*x before, then he didn't know what he was really doing. Every guys first time is a nightmare for the woman involved. (No matter what type of s*x it is, if you guys just did oral, he was still new to it and needs time to get better if it was all the way, it is the same deal.) If you like him, tell him that you feel as if you are rushing things and that you need more time before doing it again, so tell him to lay off the making out and wait for you to give the cues right now.

As far as telling your mom, in the best world, you should tell her. If she is totally against s*x and will punish you, then go to planned parenthood to get yourself some protection, including birth control pills.  

Answer 8

How do you really like someone but don't want to be around them ???? get you self straight first before doing other guys!!