Not liked someone cause their not atractive?

Question

i mean what if you like someone for who they are yet you can get past the looks im not shallow their not even decent looking ?

Answer 1

Society places too much emphasis on appearances vs who a person really is.

What if you married what you considered the most handsome man in the world and he was involved in a terrible accident and his face was burned so bad that he ended up terribly disfigured.  Would you stop loving him because of that?  

Answer 2

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But relationship is need the physical and emotional chemistry.

Hope you don't go out marry a guide for his good look or because he have an extra large p****r. any of this will be fading out very quick specially after you spend 24/7 together.

Answer 3

This is called basic biology. It is part of the process for selecting the fittest mate. It is not being shallow. However if you are an ugly or obese person, you will probably use the term "shallow" when referring to anyone who does not chose you as a mate.

It is nothing new. This will never change. The fittest will chose the fittest almost every time.

Answer 4

You are not shallow for not liking someone because they are not attractive.  I mean how are you truly going to connect with a nice person if you can not stand to look at them.  My advice is this person would be a great friend for now and I have always found a nice person grows on you.  Who knows?  You may find this person physically attractive later, if not you will likely have a great friend so you can't lose.

Answer 5

stay away from this person until you get yourself together, your may hurt this person

Answer 6

we each like certain things about others.

Not everyone thinks we're attractive, but you find those who feel you are.

follow the heart    

Answer 7

To tell you the truth I value intelligence and if someone were very attractive and spelled as bad and used your lousy grammer I would be highly embarrassed to introduce you to my family and friends.  go back to school bimbo

Answer 8

From personal experience I fell for a woman that had four kids, wore dentures, weighed 260 lbs. She was so sweet inside her that I fell for her.

Her ex husband wanted her back in his life so she gave him another chance and our relationship ended back in 1982 I met my wife in 1983

Answer 9

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. while physical chemistry is important..sometimes you love someone enough that their beauty on the inside makes them more physically attractive too..  I would rather want someone who is beautiful inside.. that way when we're both wrinkly with no hair and no teeth, I'll still appreciate the person I've spent my life with.

Every rose has it's thorn.. (haha.. couldn't miss that one with your name being rose) :)

Answer 10

Having a good connection with someone is great having a good friendship but if you want a relationship they have to have what your looking for and it may seem shallow but looks are very important in a relationship. Your not shallow if your physically attracted to that someone that it not ur fault