Not ready 4 marital relations....

Answer 1

I’m not sure if guys can help you with this question because it’s your wife that has the issue here. I hope that I’m wrong, but this sounds to me like an arranged marriage. If it is the case; I will recommend that you date her. What I mean by that is take her out to dinner and the moves, and don’t push the s*x topic. Build the relationship from the scratch. Then she will run to you and not from you.  I’m sure you love your life. You sound new to this and different culture see things different, but a wife and husband are best of friends and they tell each other everything.