Not sure how to handle a rude child...?

Question

I'm babysitting and the 7 year old is very rude to my 4 year old. Makes up stories to get him in trouble, calls him names and makes fun of him. Should I allow my 4 (almost 5)year old to handle this himself and talk to him about it before and after (to give advice, etc)the kid comes over or should I step in? Trying to teach him how to deal w/others since I won't always be there, but not sure if he's really able to handle this yet.

Answer 1

Your 4 year old is too young to "handle it himself".  The 7 year old is bullying him.  You step in.

Answer 2

You need to step up to the plate and protect your child, he should be your first responsiblity.  As far as the 7 yr old, you could be a good role model for him.  Maybe he isn't being taught manners at home and you could be a great help to him.  Just protect your 4 yr old first.

Answer 3

Well, the one who's a punk will probably be one until he is in high school so you may as well help the 4 year old learn how to not take **** offa one of his peers.

Answer 4

Kick his teeth in. That'll do the job.