Not sure if adoption is right for me?

Question

I am married mother of 5 kids and i am preagent with a nother man's baby. I am not sure what i should do, i am almost due. The father has not been around and i am trying to work on things with my husban, how is willing to help me with the baby. Right now i feel that the only why to keep my husban is to give up this baby for adoption. On the other hand i am not sure if that will help and why do i have to give up something that is apart of me for a man. So that is why i am not sure what to do

Answer 1

I  was given up for adoption when I was an infant. It was the most loving and unselfish thing my mother could have ever done for me. I was given such a gift and my life was forever changed. I was able to get a college education and be very successful. My family who adopted me were able to provide me with everything my mother wasn't able to because she was young. The most important thing in adoption is finding a couple who has a strong family, financially secure to offer your child and education and everything else they will ever need, and a house that has love beyond words to give!!!


I always knew I was adopted and every day I am so thankful and feel so blessed for the life she allowed me to have. I can only say that it is a hard thing to do, but I am proof that pure love of a birthmother can open doors for the future for their child.


My husband and I are now in the process of wanting to adopt. We have an amazing life and I want to give back, what was given to me. If I can help you in any way please let me know. I wish you the very best and if you ever want to talk you can contact me [e-mail]

Sincerely,

Kristin