Not white or black shirt to a wedding?

Question

I'm going to my friends wedding in a couple weeks.Apparently my invitation was not sent out on accident and he later called to invite me.I don't have a suit and can't afford to buy clothes for this since I am unemployed at the moment.

Is it ok if I wore an off color shirt with a matching tie? Perhaps something like a burnt orange or a dark purple.Something along those lines.

Also do I need to wear black pants or are khakis also acceptable?

The wedding is in the afternoon with a reception and dinner with an open bar afterwards at a banquet hall.

Answer 1

It depends on what kind of ceremony/reception they're having ... ask your friend if the attire is formal or casual.

If formal, then a suit would suffice. But if casual, then the normal church wear is ok (nice shirt, and/or tie, and dress pants ... khakis ok).

Just call your friend up and ask.

Answer 2

I have always felt that it didn't matter what people wore. If they thought that much of me to attend a wedding or what ever I could care less. I always have hated to hear people say I don't go to church because I don't have church clothes. Well you know as long as they have clothes to wear it doesn't matter. God doesn't care. of course short shorts and halter tops would be a no no. The same for going to funerals.

So wear what you feel comfortable in. I have been to a lot of weddings from ritzy to plain and simple. And it seemed like the guest attire was anything and everything. Go and have a good time. It is all about the bride and groom anyway and if there is going to be an open bar have the people with have their jackets, ties and etc off anyway if they wore them.  

Answer 3

Ask your friend he/she maybe able to help you here

Answer 4

Yes, you can wear any color dress shirt - no need to limit yourself to black or white. You may also want to wear a tie and a jacket/blazer if you have one.

If your khakis are nice looking (not the grungy cargo pants that you wear to rake the leaves or whatever) then they will be fine.

Remember, as long as you dressed appropriately, you don't have to be really fancy. People aren't going to be paying much attention to what you're wearing.

Answer 5

I was always very uncomfortable in a suit or sports jacket. I'd probably wear a white shirt, tie, and either blue kakies or tan ones. Make sure your shoes match your belt (black shoes equals black belt...brown shoes, brown belt)

Just remember this: the day is about them and not you. Within minutes of you getting there with your big smile and nice shirt and all. They will be happy to see you. Soon, all the guys will be flipping off their coats etc. Everybody is waiting to see the bride and groom.

You sound like a nice fella. Go and have fun. As far as a gift, see if they registered at Target or something, and you just pick a gift to buy in your price list. Couples always pick gifts on the registry with the idea in mind that some people are not able to pay a lot. It will be fun. The burnt orange sounds nice with the tie and matching pants. Sounds great

Answer 6

These days people are not so traditional in their attire when going to weddings (especially if they are young). Wear what you think is appropriate as long as it's clean and neat. Everyone looks to see what the bride and bridesmaids are wearing also the groom comes under some kind of scrutiny. Have you thought of hiring? That is if your heart is set on traditional wear . Do you have family or friends that you could borrow from? Whatever you decide, Go and enjoy the wedding and don't worry so much about appearances.  .