Now, is it just me, or do guys just don't know the meaning of the word "NO"?

Question

A guy and a girl both tried having s*x with me the other day. I'm a single girl and I don't like guys when they say they want to have s*x before marriage. Is it the best thing to do by just telling them to f*** off? (I don't ever say the f word) Because that's what I did. I told them that. But they still wouldn't leave me alone. And I wouldn't try to have s*x with a girl either. I'm not bisexual or L*****n at all.

Answer 1

just say: I'm sorry but I'm in adevoted relationship with a man that loves me very much and I'm not willing to rouin it.

Answer 2

That always depends on the guy. Applying that to all guys is stereotyping guys, which is wrong.

Answer 3

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Go to the topics page and go to the sexuality section!

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I hope this helps!  

Answer 4

Tell them they should respect you for your choice & if they don't then you shouldn't be friends with them anymore and just leave.

Answer 5

Don't knock it til you try it - girls usually know much better than guys what other girls want.

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Seriously though, a "NO" should be enough.

Answer 6

I agree with American - it totally depends on the guy (or the girl). We guys don't all come from the same mold y'know -- some of us are quite sensitive and good listeners.

But you girls also make it confusing some times because you say NO and depending on the context, it can mean No, Yes, May be, If you want it, If you make the first move, Later perhaps... how the heck can we draw one meaning out of it?

Of course a repeated and firm NO should not be confusing at all.