Now we aren't getting married at all!

Question

Well, I had asked last week about getting married at the JP, which I did get some good responses. Unfortunately, I have called the wedding completely off. My boyfriend and I have an 11yr age difference between us. And sometimes I think he needs to "do some more growing" before he gets "tied down". The bad part was, he didn't seem real upset when I called it off. I mean we are still together and everything seems to be okay, other than the fact I'm depressed as all get out. You see, this would have been my first "real" marriage(2 common-laws only). What do I do now?

Answer 1

party and live care free....

what else do you want...you called off the wedding

Answer 2

Ask yourself do you still want to be in the relationship and if so do you want a committed one?

Answer 3

Just hang in there.

He probably does need to grow up a bit. Maybe he knew that to and was relieved because he didnt want to tell you he wasnt ready. Hope it all works out.

Answer 4

I don't want to be mean, but you should be happy. Marriage is a BIG headache because I haven't been married a year yet and my husband doesn't have a backbone at all! Just enjoy it for now, because it could get worse once you're married. There's no need to get depressed, its not worth it. You know the type of woman you are and don't change anything about yourself.  

Answer 5

MARRIGE IS THE END OF SOME MARRIGE AS THE YEARS ROLL BY THE AGE GAP BECOMES LARGER AND THAT IS WHEN YOU WILL FIND IT A BIG STRAIN