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:O my 16 year old sister is pregnant ?

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ok my 16 year old sister is pregnant and she has told me not to tell anyone about it but she is keeping the baby so how can either of us hide it but she says she wants to run away from home with the father whom she has been with only 7 months she is running away to save her from telling our mum what should i do to convince her to stay and face up to her responsibility ?

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  1. hiding the fact that she is pregnant and running away from home can jeopordize the baby's life as well as your sister. she needs to be given prenatal care and check ups from a doctor to ensure both of their health, you need to tell your mother. you may feel like you are breaking confidence, but your mom will find out about it anyway, the sooner she goes to the doc the better.


  2. Tell her that if she was adult enough to have s*x, and evidentally not protect herself properly, why is she running away? Running away is what little babies do when they've screwed up and can't own up to it.

    Grown enough to s***w, but not old enough to face her mother? Wow. She sounds about 12 years old. I wanna do whatever I want but not deal with the outcome.

    It's incredibly immature, dangerous, and stupid to run off with this joker. DO NOT let her do it. Tell your parents.

    She chose the action, she chose the consequence.  You are protecting her and that baby.

  3. u need to tell her mom it will be in the best interest for her yea she will be mad but she needs to get seen by a doc reguarly and if she does run away she will get put with ruaway charges and her bf will get put in jail for ctering to a run away... tell her mom she will get over it and she cant hide it for long

  4. Okay so, I'm 16 and I just had my baby a week ago. I know you don't want to but, you or your sister have to tell your mom. Running away may seem like the rite thing to do, trust me I thought of that too, but it's not. Your parents can't legally force your sister to get an abortion or put the baby up for adoption. They will get upset but, I don't believe they'd throw her out. If that dose happen, look for a family member who would be willing to take her in.

    Good luck!

  5. Well, you know this so you should tell your parents. This is serious and she's not going to be able to keep it a secret for any longer. It's good she's keeping the baby, but she's going to need money for appointments and so on. She can't run away with someone like that, she's not old enough. You need to tell your mom, before it's too late. You have to tell her she has to have responsibility. She can't just act this way. You have to tell her the dangers if she leaves.

  6. tell her hat your mum will understand! i know its usually best if se tells but if you are willing, offer to talk to your mum for her! remember to tell her that her mother legally CANNOT make her get an aborion, give the baby up for adoption, or move out. if you can, let her stay a your place. just after your mom knows, si down and have a discussion. i know it isnt really your responsibility, but its a good thing you care=] so yeah, after your mom knows sit down and talk (all 3 of you) and discuss it. maybe all  3 of you will decide your sisters best off living with you, atleas for a while. well, hope i helped a bit and best wishes to you and your family=]

  7. Im not sure if there is anything you can do. She is not very smart to run away, but she got pregnant at 16 so I guess shes not very smart at all.  

  8. tell her that in the long run it would probably be better for her, the boyfriend, and the baby to stay with your parents. its hard to be a young mom alone.

  9. Please, try and convice her to stay and talk to her mum about it. Running away from home is NOT the answer. I've been there, done that, got the tshirt [running away i mean, not pregnancy]. You have to talk things over again with your sister, and TRY to persuade her that running will only make matters worse, telling your mum would be far better. Your mum may be angry with her at first, but then she will be more understanding. Your sister is 16, which is the age of consent, so there should not be too many hard feelings caused. But like I said, its better to talk than run away. Your mum will be worried sick if she does a runner. I know, when I did a runner my parents were really really worried.

  10. talk to ur mom about it.

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  11. She should get on birth control.Tell her Yaz is a good 1!

  12. If she thought she was old enough to have s*x, then she should have thought about the consequences.

    Tell her to own up to her responsibilities.  She needs to be able to be adult enough to tell your parents.

  13. The only thing you can do is try to convince her that the best thing to do for herself and for her child is to tell her parents. She needs medical care and she will need her mom.

  14. Convice her to stay. Or try to get it so she can go somewhere where she'll be safe. running away when ur pregnant would mean that she would be at serious risk and the baby would also be. You have to convinc her to find a safer way. Pregnancies can go seriously wrong if not carefully watched. Tell your parents if she wont listen. Your sister will thank you later.

  15. Ok she is 16, I was when i had my first and my mum supported me 100%. Brake your promise and tell your mum before she will run away, maybe your mum will be cool about it. Tell her now. Good Luck to you all

  16. I'm sorry but tell your sister to tell your mother or else you will.. does she realise that running away when pregnant could end up with her anywhere around all sorts of dangerous people and i doubt a 16 year old [the age i am] could cope in a situation like being a mother, let alone being without support. Tell her to wise up.

  17. Well shes silly because your mums goner end up calling the police anyways and shes going to be listed missing and she needs to face up to it and tell your mum or you should but in a way its your sisters fult she should of kepted her legs closed and her boyfriend should of put a cap on it but you need to do whats best for your sister thats all i can say but goodluck to you and your sister.

  18. hiding the fact that she is pregnant and running away from home can jeopordize the baby's life as well as your sister. she needs to be given prenatal care and check ups from a doctor to ensure both of their health, you need to tell your mother. you may feel like you are breaking confidence, but your mom will find out about it anyway, the sooner she goes to the doc the better. your mom will probably be upset, but at least she can point your sister in the right direction.  

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