OK, so, my cousin is getting married September 2009? sorry if long?

Question

i've asked this question before but didn't get much answers, so i need more answers, and no mean answers, thanks, ok, so i know 2009 is like a year away but still, my cousin is getting married, and my aunts, cousins and unlces that r going have facebook, so i kind of want to go and kind of don't, i wanna go because u know my cousin is getting married, but i kind of don't wanna go, cause then my relatives will talk to me, so if they do, should i talk to them without enthusiasm(sorry if i spelled it wrong) or not talk to them at all and see how they feel, thank you, and please no mean answers

Answer 1

I guess I don't understand why you wouldn't want to talk to your relatives.  If it is because you are offended that your relatives haven't responded to your facebook posts (I'm assuming this is related to some of your older questions), then I think you need to get over the facebook issues and not let something so silly stop you from seeing your cousin get married.

Holding a grudge against relatives because they don't respond to you on facebook is pretty immature, so prove how grown up you are (you're 15, right?) and converse with them normally and politely.  If you really want to, you could ask them why they never respond to your messages - meeting face-to-face would provide a good way of asking them about it, right?  Try not to let something as silly as an online application come between you and your relatives!

If you don't think that you can put aside your hurt feelings to be amicable to everyone on your cousin's wedding day, then I would suggest staying home.  (Are your parents really giving you a choice in the matter?)  Talk to your parents about how you feel - maybe they would even be able to tell you why your relatives don't keep in touch with you or at least give you a phone number or an address so you could contact them directly!  In any case, a wedding is not the time to be ignoring your family to "see how they feel."  

Patch up the relationships you have with your relatives, and enjoy the wedding!!

Answer 2

OK, so like you don't want like mean answers. OK, like you give like mean comments to others, OK. So like, your question doesn't make any sense, like you know you didn't give like any info. OK, like you don't have like respect for your family or cousin, like if you even consider not going. So, OK like you should stay home. Like, it wouldn't be anyone's loss if you don't like go, OK.

Answer 3

i think how long does an average wedding go for 6 hours ish

just go im sure you can have a nice chat and im sure your cousin will want to have you there its her special day and im sure nothing would please her more than have her family happy with each other

Answer 4

yeah you should go to the wedding to show your support.

Or else you'll look like hte bad guy you know?

And if they talk to you yeah talk back.

be nice and maybe you should bring up facebook and ask them why they don't talk to you and all.

To your aunts and uncles not cousin though since its his wedding day..lol

be nice and talk to them if they talk to you.

if you want them to feel guilty if they talk to you say sumthing like oo wuts their to talk about now? you never seem to talk to me on facebook. lol u kno sumthing smart.

Answer 5

are you kidding go and support your family, in the end thats all you have

Answer 6

If you love and care for your cuzz i would totally go! Show your support and be there on their special day! If you don't want to talk to anyone and they talk to you, respond politely and simply and direct your attention elsewhere.

Answer 7

Go to the wedding and show support for your cousin.

Be assertive and GREET your relatives...you know, make the rounds.  Don't linger, but be pleasant and move on.

And then, it's off your chest!!!  You're free to enjoy watching your cousin on his/her big day and you were mature about it.

No bad memories...No drama.