OK FOR ANYONE WHO HAS BEEN CHEATED ON?

Question

OK THIS THING POPPED UP WHEN MY FRIEND AND I WERE TALKING HER BF CHEATED ON HER SHE WASNT UPSET OR ANYTHING BECAUSE SHE IS USED TO IT SAME WITH MYSELF I HAVE BEEN CHEATED ON MORE TIME THEN I CAN COUNT. THE QUESTION IS THOUGH HOW MANY OF U ARE U R USED TO TTHAT AND IS IT WRONG TO BE USED TO IT

Answer 1

If you speak like you type I can understand why...

Answer 2

Used to it? You like getting cheated out of an honest relationship? You like wasting your time? Believing a lie?

Answer 3

if you knew a 7 year old child who said they were used to being raped by their fathers, would that be okay?

no. they child deserves better.

and so do you.

Answer 4

Yes I have been cheated on and no I did not tolerated it. People treat u the way u allow them to try treat u. If you do not respect and love yourself no one else is going to do it.

Answer 5

yay cheating

Answer 6

i wouldnt say im used to it but ive had my fair share of getting cheated on i dont think its wrong in fact i think it helps u be aware and prepared

Answer 7

I could never get used to it...I respect myself.  Don't let anybody cheat on you and know that it's o.k. because they will do it again and again and again...

Answer 8

It's pretty twisted to be used to getting cheated on.  That's not normal.  It doesn't happen all the time.  But for some reason, you have been conditioned into thinking it is.

Seek help.  But if you're okay with it, don't seek help.  I'm just saying it aint normal!

Answer 9

Yes you should not be used to such disrespect.

Answer 10

I'm not used to it nor will I ever be and you know why? It's because I love myself beyond a man... I would rather be alone than unhappy.

God never intended for love to be the way you are used to it being and settling for that is like telling God, "You're a liar you can't send real love my way."

And as a result you've allowed the devil to make you believe that you don't deserve better. It's a sad thing to see you and your friend like that. I'll pray for y'all because no woman or man should settle for anything less than the best.  

Answer 11

I would kick his sorry behind to the curb! Dogs sleeps with dogs! Her self-esteem is not obviously high enough to see what a destructive person she is choosing to associate with. Tell her to kick him out of her life, get some counseling, and move on. Tell her to find someone who will treat her with respect, kindness, and love.

good luck.  

Answer 12

My boyfriend cheated on me twice in three months. we've been together (on and off) for 3-4 years. That little twice in three months...scarred me forever. I'm almost tempted to ask for your advice on how to get the image out of my head that he even touched another woman? If it doesnt bother you, maybe you should question your love for this man. I can understand if all your previous relationships have just been ho-blo and they all ended in unfaithfulness. But when you truly love and care and devote yourself to someone, you should feel truly betrayed. My guy learned his lesson and in the past 2 years hasnt touch anyone but me. So remember that there is a guy out there that can have self control and CAN fall in love with you. (And, can keep his hands where their suppose to be!) =]]

Answer 13

i have been cheated on.. but am i no where near getting used to it!! nor will i ever be. i dump the person that cheats on me and stay away from them. obviously you girls have low self esteem because you stay with the fools that cause you so much pain because you are afraid of being alone...  

Answer 14

I don't see how any person ( man or woman ) could be use to the fact of their  boyfriend/girlfriend cheating on them. That is very disrespectful. To say that you are use to being cheated on...that is saying that you are use to someone telling you lies, stories, having s*x with other man/women...

I love myself too much to let someone do that to me ...and I love myself too much to say that I'm use to having that done.

You have to respect yourself ....and treat yourself right..and know that you don't deserve that.

Answer 15

ive been cheated on :[

Answer 16

Yes especially when you have deadly diseases called aids. Cheating doesn't just leave emotional scars. And if you are use to it, it's because you have an extreme low self-esteem

Answer 17

to Simon C. with his rude answer to this question...shut up, your so rude! she needs help. If she was looking for sarcasm, she would ask for it!

also i've been used plenty times before and cheated on ( emotionally but it might as well have been physically b/c of the way he acted) . i hate it everytime. I think you're so use to it that it doesn't bug you anymore and so you dont really see yourself as worth as much as you should be... but i bet you are! just think to yourself, i'm worth more than that scumbag and i shouldn't have to put up with! but it doesnt sound normal to just take it. if you stand up for yourself you'll probably get a better man and not weak one

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Answer 18

Well...

I don't think it's wrong to be used to it but you need to find someone alittle better.... And don't take it easy on the person who cheated just cuz your used to it..