OK I'm going to end the FB- sexual situation I'm in....?

Question

--and I'm going to tell him I'm ending it because he is making me uncomfortable. He has changed how he acts around me since we first got together and I refuse to be played by him so I will end it first.

--the guy has something he borrowed from me, how do I get it back? I'm waiting for him to contact me so I can ask for the property back. On another note, I wonder if I should just let that go (he can keep it so it's said and done with) but he asked to borrow it and it's mine.

--Also, what do I do when I pass him in the street from now on because there's probably no way of getting around that. He lives close by (bad decision on my part)

I feel so bad about starting this and I know it stemmed from the fact that I'm at a low point in my life that I need help with. But he made it worse after it started and it's time to stop. Help me.

Answer 1

A couple of things

Stand up to this guy and stop acting like a damned victim

You truly  did nothing  wrong and nobody and I mean nobody should make you feel like you did.

When you see the guy on the street , stand up tall and meet his eyes with yours , employ the cold stripper stare

Tell him with firmness that you want your possessions back ....and get them

If you feel good about yourself  this will all have  good out come ...believe it

Good luck

Answer 2

It Would Be Easyer If You Treated This As Just Another Relationship... Becuase They Ended Well Didn't They ?

If I Was In Your Shoes, Unless The *Property * Matters ... just leave it with him.